[kiwi guy]

Ok, I'm another guy (not gay) who has experimented with anal type toys & objects.
What is the largest diameter (millimetres or inches) object you members (male & female) out there have 'safely' inserted without causing injury? There must be a 'safe' maximum diameter size before any damage can be caused?

[acerousme]

As long as you warm up the anus, and use special anal lube, Im sure any size is fine, as long as you are comfortable with it.

[kiwi guy]

Acersome, what do you mean by 'warm' the anus ? I've never heard that term before! The largest width item I have inserted (only for arousal / experimenting) was approx 2 inches (50mm) wide. I did start with smaller items originaly before this -over a certain length of time beforehand thou. Didnt want to stretch anus all of a sudden in fear of damaging it.

[acerousme]

Like exercising any muscles...you need to warm them up first. Start with something small, and work your way up to big.

[kiwi guy]

Thanks for advice! What is the largest diameter / width sextoy or object that you know of (or have used?) that can be inserted without causing internal external damage? There must be someone / members who's 'experimented' it ? Do you have a lubricant called Durex Play in your country ? That's what I have used various times? I'm definately 'not' gay or bi sexual - but would consider (?) a sexual 'once only' experience with a guy, depending on age & experience & safe methods (condoms, lubricant etc) just to have done to me what I want him to perform. NO KISSING !!!!

[acerousme]

Like I said before, If you stretch those muscles, and PLAY CAUTIOUSLY, everything will be fine. We have Durex play up in Canada as well. You can use whatever kind of lube you'd like...just use a lot of the stuff. And talk the parter through it. Communication is important during anal play.

DO NOT use anything that numbs the area or tingles. The sensation has to be as natural as possible (also remember condoms. Theyre very important in clean anal play)

SO...what did we learn?

1) A CONDOM AND LUBE ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND!
2) FINGER FIRST! work up to two fingers, then maybe a toy or whatever floats your boat.
3) COMMUNICATION IS KEY

Use those three Golden rules (or Brown rules) and you're good to go



Play safely