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  • barrera
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2012
    • 3

    my girlfriend cannot cum after loosing her virginity

    hey guys i recently had sex with my girlfriend which was her first time. she did not cum during this time but before we started having sex she was always able to make herself cum through masturbation

    since she has lost her virginity she can no longer cum (either through sex or masturbation), though she does seem to really enjoy sex with me. i just really really really want to make this girl climax

    iv had 3 sexual partners in my life who i have slept with multiple times so i consider myself fairly experienced especially compared to my current girlfriend

    its also worth noting that i did infact pop her cherry and she bled for 2 days after loosing her virginity

    any advice would be greatly appreciated

    THANKS
  • BabyGirl
    Banned
    • May 2010
    • 1665


    Maybe, trying allot of Foreplay and having her climax orally from you or your masturbating her off, then attempt the Penetration while she is still in the Throes of her first Climax. It may just take some practice and patience.

    Ummm

    its also worth noting that i did infact pop her cherry and she bled for 2 days after loosing her virginity
    Can you explain why you feel this is Noteworthy ?

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Did your other gfs climax? if so, what did you do to get them to climax?
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • sexmonsterrawr
        Junior Member
        • Apr 2012
        • 8

        Sometimes when you add more to the mix it makes it harder. Simply masturbating feels great, but then intercourse makes it feel better so the masturbation isnt always as good as it was. Oral may help, or a toy. I love touching myself while my fiance is inside me, it turns him on and feels so much better for me.

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