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  • mape11
    Junior Member
    • May 2012
    • 2

    whats your opinion, am I small?

    I'm 18 years old and am a virgin. I'm on the heavy side 5'9" 300 pounds. I've always been taunted with the assumption that bigger males are small down there. My erect length is 5" long and about 2 inches wide. Do women think this is small? Your opinions are appreciated.
  • Claret
    Assistant Admin
    • Jan 2011
    • 1823

    Why does it matter what we think? What matters is the woman you are with and how she feels.
    That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      One of the benefits of losing weight for an obese guy is that he actually gets longer due to not having such a thick pad of fat over the pubic bone. You are in the normal range for length and girth, but by losing weight you can actually become longer. Maybe this would be good motivation. It should also improve your self image.

      Most women will be more interested in your personality and physically in what you do with what you have.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • Ashlee T.
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2008
        • 6412

        Sounds like a pretty average size to me. But I'm with JNS on the fact that you should turn your focus from penis size onto getting healthy, exercising, eating a balanced nutritious diet, etc. Get healthy, get in shape, and you'll be amazed how much better you feel about yourself in general.
        "Be what you're looking for."

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        • BabyGirl
          Banned
          • May 2010
          • 1665



          I am with all the others so far. Your Health and Attitude and Behavior is much more important than the size of your Penis, You should not be judged on your size, Body or Penis. Though having a Healthy body it is easier for some women to want a Permanent relationship with a Person that takes care of themselves and will live a long life and not be ridden will illnesses due to Weight issues, like High Blood Pressure, Heart Disease, Diabetes.

          Try focusing on your Health and how Big your Heart is , let the Penis size not be an issue.

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