[Mel_486]

Hey,
So I'm 16 and a half, and I've been sexually active since I was 15, but I've never been able to feel pleasure while being fingered, oral, sex, or anything other sexual activity, done by myself or others. And sex hurts a lot, even if I'm completely relaxed and lubed up.
It's like I'm completely numb down there with pleasure, and my boyfriend and I have tried everything we can think of.
I've recently spoken to my doctor about it, and she's never heard of anything like it and could only suggest things we've already tried.

If anyone has any advice, or have heard of anything like this before, help would be very appreciated.

[jns]

Why does sex hurt a lot? Is it your penetrating too deeply and hitting your cervix? Is he too big? Is he too rough? Etc. Describe the pain. Is it sharp? Is it dull? Where is it located? How long does it last?

What is the specialty of the doctor you talked to?

[Mel_486]

The pain doesn't really change with how deep he goes, and he's never rough.
The pain's sharp, but bearable and it's throughout the whole area during sex and tends to go away about 10 to 20 minutes after we stop, depending on how long we go for.
Honestly, the pain doesn't bother me

My doctors just a general doctor, and I'm going to have a talk to my mum and see if we can get me into one specializing in this, I just really don't want to tell her what's going on, we really don't talk about things, she tends to just ignore them and she gets really awkward :\