[anuji]

i'm 19 year old girl., i havent done any fingering or anything like that., last week my friend had told me about his relation with his girlfriend., nd she had told me about him., she told me that he used to make her do many things in phone.,dey had not done anyting physicaly., but does many thing in phone., nd had told me everthing in detail., i didnt hav any intrst in such things before., but now i'm thinking of getting wet and all., me nd ma bro sleep in d same room at nyt., so if i do anything wil he come to kno about it., he is sleeping in another bed on oder side of room., so if i do anything wil he hear anything., i dnt want him to kno about it., is it ok to hav such feelings now., i dnt kno wat all i should do before doing all dos., wat all should i do before doing all des., pls giv me as much suggestions as possible., but i dnt want to hurry all dis up and do a fingering on d 1st day itslf., i'm very much afraid about d pain nd all., pls tel me wat all i should do before doing all dis.,

[jamesmarshalls]

I think bathroom is the best place to do that when you have some in your room. But if you just have continue doing it I am afraid that you will seek for it every time you feel it. And when you do this as often and maybe you will not be able to stop so I just tell you to stop yourself and avoid the things that make you feel the same feeling.

[anuji]

hm., wel bathroom., i dnt think i'l do it der., cos i'm not dat much intrstd in such things and.,so i thnk i need lot of tym to get started., i dnt thnk i'l do all dis., but i need some advices.,so dat even if i thnk f doing dis,.i wont b in trouble..

[jns]

anuji, You can mask any sounds by playing music. Just have it turned down low so it doesn't disturb your brother.

[anuji]

okay,,,

[anuji]

is der any girls here who had done dis???

[Hugo-B]

Exploring your own body is a natural and healthy part of growing up and of self discovery, congratulations.

The bedroom/bed is the normal place for this, however I would avoid letting your brother see or hear this at all costs, you need to do this in private, the bath would be better, or when your brother is out and you are sure he won't come back early.

I would venture all girls do this at some point in their lives. You are perfectly normal.