[abu_ayman]

i have a question for you girls:
i gave my gf an erotic film softcore two days ago and when i saw her the next day and asked her about it she told me that she came 10 times in half an hour, but when i do sex withher she comes only once,so what is the difference??

[Nholland]

Sometimes I just wanna lay on my back n get off without worrying about my boyfriends needs or having to exert myself by getting on top.. Masturbating is just easier, it doesn't give u the satisfaction of the other stuff, like kissing and being touched and talked dirty to etc..it's just easy. Don't feel bad about it.

[abu_ayman]

thanks nholland for ur answer.
does trying to find g-spot deserves my time to try??

[rosekitten]

If you're asking if attempting to give your GF a better/different kind of stimulation and orgasm is worth your time, I feel that you are the only one who can answer that question.

[abu_ayman]

i mean can i reach this g-spot or g-spot is only a fake??
thanks

If you're asking if attempting to give your GF a better/different kind of stimulation and orgasm is worth your time, I feel that you are the only one who can answer that question.

[Hopeless Dork]

I think to hunt for a "spot" g, or otherwise is a mistake. Instead, hunt for SPOTS, as in more than one.. never give up on trying to find new areas to stimulate that bring her pleasure. Its different for all women, and it changes over time and even changes on a day to day, situation to situation basis as far as what kind of sensation feels good and where.

I don't know the medical science behind the gspot, but I do not I feel immense pleasure from internal stimulation, particularly near the location the 'spot' is supposed to be... but i think going on some fact finding mission in her vagina to locate it would lose all the sexy in the act.. instead just touch different areas of her body, head to toe.. and especially every square inch of her lady parts, gauge her reactions, and see what she likes touched, kissed etc.. and HOW she likes it touched and kissed.

I usually only orgasm once with my bf, sometimes two or 3 times on a particularly frisky evening Usually during masturbation its just once, but i can go and go as much as time permits also.

I think its a matter of comfort. Sometimes women get in their own head when having sex, so worried about pleasing their partner, both physically and VISUALLY, that they can't really "let go" too pre-occupied with what they might look like, sound like, or be thought of if they say or do anything in the moment. The more comfortable we get with a man, the more secure we feel in the relationship, generally the sex gets better and better when its with a man that wants it to be good for us.

[Nholland]

I think it definitely deserves a try I ne'er had one until 8 yes into my sex life and now I squirt all over. Never stop experimenting!! It's pArt of the fun!

[Hugo-B]

OP, the nest step would be to watch the film with her.