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  • cometlover
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    • Jun 2012
    • 18

    pain during penetration

    Okay so me and my man was having sex (reverse cowgirl [which we normally do]) today and when he penetrated me it hurt. While we were having sex it didn't. It was just the initial penetration than a weird funny feeling after. I would have to re-adjusted myself and than the funny feeling would be gone. This isnt the first time either, this has happened quite a lot recently. Does anyone know what is up with this?
  • Element
    Veteran Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 308

    I've only had it hurt during penetration for a half dozen times after I had just lost my virginity and I was still extremely tight. It had also hurt as he pulled out. Have you recently been doing a lot of kegels and tightening the muscles down there?

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    • DreamP346
      • Oct 2011
      • 2053

      Before I had kids, the initial penetration was almost always a little uncomfortable. If it had been over a week since my last sexual encounter, it would be painful. But during sex it would be fine. Also, if you have a tilted uterus (I do), certain positions can be painful. Doggie is usually uncomfortable for me.
      Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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      • cometlover
        Member
        • Jun 2012
        • 18

        element - I lost my virginity at 18 & was sexually active with my ..... cherry popping boyfriend (sorry brain could only come up with this) for almost 2 years than didnt have sex again for 2 years & recently started having sex (about 7 months ago). I do tighten while having sex not at the beginning. I know how painful that can be!! It never really hurt while pulling out, just the initial putting in

        sp346 - This hasnt happen in a long time, the last time was almost 3 years ago with my first sexual partner, but it wasnt the first time we had sex it was a year into having sex. My last sexual encounter was actually earlier that day (which it hurt than too) and before that was the night before, but it didnt hurt then. Well thats the thing doggie doesnt hurt but it is very un-comfy. I find legs on his shoulders to hurt a lot more & deep penetration hurts like ****!! Makes me cry every time, which I am glad this guy doesnt need deep penetration, he just loves reverse cowgirl cuz its hard to make him ejaculate.

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