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  • CSE97
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 2

    Problems with sex...help.

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and have had sex about 8 times. I have always been able to feel, and have a sensation. We had sex and it felt really good, so we waited about 30 minutes and then started going at it again, when he started pushing in i could feel it a little, but when he fully got inside me i could feel anything. I mean i could tell it was in but it didnt feel like usual and it felt like it was just there. I told him i couldnt really feel anything so we tried again, and it was exactly the same, nothing. I havent played with toys or anything like that, because i havent needed to before, from getting enough pleasure from oral, and regular sex. We havent really tried that many diffrent positions. But i just wanted to know what was going on with me. Help
    CSE97
  • AshB$
    Veteran Member
    • May 2011
    • 272

    I know how that is. When we first started having sex, I could feel the whole 9 inches!!!! After we could actually fit it in, that is.
    But now if he puts it in, I know it's there, but I cannot feel it really. My vagina (as yours) have gotten used to the boyfriend. It still feels good when he starts thrusting but I feel it best when he thrusts at different angels. Do try different positions. Lay in the "spooning" position and spread your legs a little and have him go in behind you. That one is amazing and I think we do it more than missionary!! Try getting on top.
    Another one is doggy style it hurt like a beeeotch at first but it gives the guy a lot of pleasure, and trust me, you'll feel it. It's a little harder I think to get it in in this position, but do try!

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    • Element
      Veteran Member
      • Jun 2012
      • 308

      Do kegel exercises. They help to tighten up the muscles down there. Just try to do them as often as possible. If you do office work, you can do them at work and no one would be the wiser. If you're sitting on the couch watching TV, then do a few rounds.

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      • CSE97
        Junior Member
        • Jun 2012
        • 2

        Thank you AshB$ for the help, it did help out and i can feel it a lot more!

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        • AshB$
          Veteran Member
          • May 2011
          • 272

          Glad it worked Good luck!

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