[JRod]

NOT a size survey/am I big enough tread. I've been on here enough to know that there are a million (ok, a lot) of topics on here on that issue. I do not wish to be consoled and or convinced that if my girl is happy and it's how it use it yatayata. I know all of this:-)

With that said, I would consider an enlargement procedure. My current and my ex were both against it and Im NOT that big. 6 3/4. I tried every "trick" in the book to get them to give me thier blessing but was shot down every time. I told them I wouldn't be upset if they went along with it. That I wouldn't hold it against them for admitting it. This along with a dozen other approaches. SO, my question is IF YOU were in this situation would you ADMIT that you supported an enlargemnent or would you do so affraid of bruising your guys ego that you would say no even though you'd be ok with him going through with it. -Just want to know what my girl and a majority of women REALLY think. Thanks ladies:-)

[CHANDLERS WISH]

6 and 3/4 and you want an enlargement ? Heck no, ouch... What's the point of having this huge thing that doesn't totally fit in and creates friction trying to fit it all in, what sensuality can come of that?

They are telling you the truth.

[Element]

It would depend upon the woman. All women's vagina's are not exactly one size. If the sex is good, then why is there a need to change the size of your penis? It goes along with the saying "If it ain't broke, don't fix it."

But to answer your initial question, if my guy wanted it, I would support him, it's his body he can do to it what he wants, I would help him recuperate. But good God I would be asking the doctor questions about my own health with him being bigger. As much as guys don't want to admit it, there is such a thing as "too big". You have to remember that women can feel down there, a penis stretches the vagina to accommodate for size, but it can only get so big, then it starts to tear. Women can bleed down there from masturbating too roughly with their finger, so a penis can tear at the vagina as well. Not to mention it takes time for a woman's vagina to tighten up again by doing daily kegels. If the man's penis is huge and stretches her a lot, it'll take a long time for her vagina to back to normal size; and this can only be done by having no vaginal sex. So think of that as well. She might stay permanently stretched out unless you give her weeks to go back to her normal size.

If you are insecure about your penis size, and want to have it surgically altered, then that is up to you. It's your body and you may do to it as you wish. But once a woman sees your ****, a lot of things are going to be going through her head. And "oooh big!" isn't where it stops. She's going to be thinking about her health and physical health. So be prepared to be turned down. Or if she does try and it hurts too much, be ready to stop when she says so.

[TJPatriot]

I'm the same length as you, with every sexual partner I've hit the cervix and caused them pain on occasion. You only hit the cervix if you go in too deep, I wouldn't want to be any longer, maybe more girth would be useful, but I certainly would not care for longer.

[jns]

Most penis lengthening surgery has risks, such as impotence or loss of mechanical stability. Are you OK with the possible bad outcomes? Otherwise, I suppose it is not much different than breast enhancement. I wouldn't suggest either except maybe in extreme cases such as reconstructive surgery, but to each his or her own.

[notlikethenormal]

I think they already are telling you the truth.

I've never measured my boyfriend but I'd guess he's probably about 6-7 inches and yes he has hit my cervix before and yes it was painful. With that said though if he is careful he can touch the cervix and have it be pleasureable... I wouldn't want him to be any longer than he is now though.

Like others have said though, there is no one size fits all and if you really want to have an enlargement then go for it but be prepaired for the reaction some women may have.

[stariana]

Have you ever heard the expression "it's not the size, but how you use it, that matters"?

[AshB$]

Why on earth would you do that? You aren't small. I don't think you should be concerned. You don't wanna be "too big".

[ItsASecret]

Unless a man was suffering severe psychological distress from the anxiety of his size and therefore wanted to approach the subject of surgery I would be completely opposed to it. There is simply no reason to have it done if psychologically a man is perfectly okay with his size. Too big means more pain, pain is not on a turn on for most women.

[DreamP346]

Here is the truth. If I was your girlfriend, I would never admit that I thought my partner's size was too small. But more than likely, I wouldn't start a relationship with a person who wasn't good in bed, so their size would already be something that I was happy with. So whatever your partners as saying, it is most likely true.