[shoshannah]

When my boyfriend reaches orgasm he usually likes to go deep, and in some positions I find this painful when he its my cervix. He's aware of it, but he also can be so carried away by his orgasm that he has trouble not going too deep. Does anyone else have this problem? If so, what's the best thing to do about it?

[AshB$]

I noticed when I ride my boyfriend and I'm on top of him and he goes too deep, it hurts. Usually I tell him it hurts and he stops.

Your guy needs to respect your concerns. Try to do positions that don't hurt. Just talk to your boy and tell him he needs to try to control it because it hurts. I know he may get carried away, but I know that kind of pain isn't fun at all.

[chaya]

He's aware of it, but he also can be so carried away by his orgasm that he has trouble not going too deep.

I sure have that problem.It is not so bad when I'm aroused and up for sex but I usually don't get that way any more. Like your BF, my hubby knows and has promised to not go so deep but he gets excited, especially nearing climax. I don't want to stop him and ruin it for him so I just bite my lip and bare it. Sometimes it almost makes me cry.

[jns]

Try a position that limits the depth of penetration. One is with the girl flat on the bed and the guy entering her from behind. Her butt cheeks will not let him go all of the way in. The easiest way to get in this position is to start doggy style and have the girl slowly flatten out on the bed with the guy staying inside. The guy gets all of the sensation because the girls butt cheeks squeeze together, making things feel tighter. The girl can control the tightness to a degree by tensing her legs and holding them together ... or not.