[danny112]

My wife and I have been separated for about 2 months. Before this our sex life was not that great, once every 2 or 3 weeks and very predictable.

After the first 2 weeks apart and no sexual contact for about a month, we did have sex. And it was great. Since then its been at least every week and is incredible every time. She is soooo much more into it and am wondering why?

[LittlePip]

Maybe she was/you were bored? It seems obvious to me. Plus what she could have any time she liked has been rationed. Any of the little arguments that you might've had on a day to day basis have disappeared, you may find your relationship runs more smoothly now you don't see as much of one another? I certainly have friends and family like that, I love them, but in very small doses!

[AshB$]

I noticed after me and my fiance didn't have sex for like 3 days (it used to be multiple times a day), when we finally did it was AMAZING. I think it's the wanting it, thinking about it, dreaming of it. Waiting. And finally getting it. The intimacy was missed so much and the whole situation was much more cherished.

[JonDoe]

It seems that getting un-married is having the inverse effect of getting married. I'll bet you are getting head again too! Maybe that will work for me too!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Danny,

It seems to me that her life felt perhaps a bit mundane and she wants excitement and good intimacy and off course, you are her husband. Whilst you are living apart, this is like dating all over again, it's fantastic, don't wonder just go with it and make each time, great as well as with some laughter after if possible. Think back to when you dated her and just see if you can re-produce some of this..

[Hugo-B]

The Law of diminishing returns dictates we can't just go on and follow the same routine and schedule regularly and experience the same degree of pleasure from it. Variety is the spice of life, and more isn't always better.