[pmgmk92]

So, I give my fiance a blow job about 4 times a week. I don't mind going down on him but he always wants me to swollow. I don't like to swollow his cum because it is "thick" and I can't handle it, I tend to gag. Anyway, he knows that in the past every guy I have every been with I have swollowed for them (with no problem). I don't want to tell him that I don't want to because I can't handle him cum, and take a chance at hurting him, but at the same time I want to tell him how I feel. Oh, by the way, I only swollowed for him maybe a hand full of times.

Any advice?

[JonDoe]

So, I give my fiance a blow job about 4 times a week.

Did you say f-f-f-four times a week? My wife has not given me a single blow job to completion in 21 years of marriage, and 2 years of dating prior to marriage. Excuse me for a moment while I pour a stiff drink, and look for my calculator.... 4,784 missed opportunities!

Next time keep an empty glass by your side, have him come in the glass, and then hand it to him to swallow. If he swallows without hesitation, your screwed; otherwise, problem solved.

[Element]

My question is, why does he insist on you swallowing his cum? That is quite odd. Usually men just care about the getting off part, whatever happens to the cum they don't care.

[pmgmk92]

*Jondoe Yes, we normally have sex more than 4 times a week. I only give him oral 4 times a week. It's always been that way. Lol! I seriously doubt he will swollow his own come. But that would be funny (but gross at the same time).

[pmgmk92]

Other guys I have been with wanted it, too. Maybe it's the guys I am with? Lol but I wouldn't mind swollowing my fiances if it wasn't for the fact that it is thick.

[JonDoe]

*Jondoe Yes, we normally have sex more than 4 times a week. I only give him oral 4 times a week. It's always been that way. Lol!

Did you say ONLY 4 times a week? I ONLY had sex 4 times last year. Can I clone you when that is possible and legal? Time for another drink!

[pmgmk92]

What can I say? I just love it! haha And I don't see how you may have only had sex 4 times last year? Just doesn't seem possible.

[jns]

Some posts on other threads have said that men can control the thickness somewhat by staying well hydrated. Does he drink a lot of water?

[pmgmk92]

Actually, no. He drinks more soda and sweet drinks. Now when he is at work he will drink water, but that's only at work.

[Hugo-B]

I've got a feeling he'll start drinking more water if it's for a good cause...

I think we men think if a girl swallows once then she'll do it all the time - I'm not saying that's reasonable - but we will start to consider it normal procedure.

If you really don't want to swallow try this, a girl did this for me once and it was awesome, she must have copied it from a porn film: when you've got his cum in your mouth, look up at him and touch the tip of you finger on your lip and open your mouth slightly and let the cum dribble out of your mouth down your chin and onto your breasts. He wont complain about you not swallowing, I can promise you that much.