[AshB$]

I'm sure it is not an STD. Fiance is clean, I was a virgin before him.

We have some theories:

What if I am allergic to his semen? He has came in me numerous times, and we had no problems.. Just the last two times it is a very uncomfortable burning sensation. It doesn't itch or anything. Just feels inflamed. Fiance said it looks fine, maybe a little red. But it burns around the hole. But as I said before, no itching.

The second if started burning when I wiped his cum off with a shirt. The shirt honestly didn't look the cleanest. It started burn immediately after that. So I don't know.

The first time we wiped it off, it was okay. And then he continued to finger me quite aggressively. (I told him to) lol And after that it hurt to even move, it burned so bad. He said it didn't look irritated though. So both times I've hopped in the shower and the water has made it feel better. Water always does the trick, I feel. Also while we had sex, he also added a finger while he had his penis in me. Felt strange, but good. Just worry about the stretching.

Another thing we've heard is, maybe since he is quite large, and goes fast and hard sometimes, and he doesn't always play with me beforehand, so I'm not always wet. Sometimes he has to force it in a bit, which hurts at first, but when he gets going is fine.. But we heard doing that can cause tiny cuts/blisters in the vagina. Which I am hoping it's this before it's a quick fix.

Anyone else have this happen? It's just around/in the hole. No itching. Just burns.

Any suggestions?

Thanks,

[Ahryin]

First and foremost if he is large you should be using a certain amount of foreplay before the actual play... you have to give your body a certain amount of warning about what is coming..lol (no pun intended) Second have you tried taking a sit bath after? It's also possible you might have the beginning of a yeast infection especially if you used a t-shirt to clean yourself (Which by the way I NEVER suggest) Have you used lotions, has he used lotions before the situation. yes you can swell, I have swollen before but it was due to a latex allergy. All and all the best thing to do in all situations is to consult your OBGYN...my OBGYN is dang near my best friend she is on auto dial and they know me by voice!
Good Luck Chicka

Ahryin

[Winged_Muse]

I know this post is coming a bit late but I've had the problem before. Whenever I had sex, or he even fingered me it hurt and burned like crazy and the pain would continue for quite a few minutes before it would finally stop. I couldn't have sex for quite a while because of the pain and it definitely sucked. Come to find out I had the start of a yeast infection. Went to the doctor and she gave me the prescription pills and thankfully it was gone within a week or so but even then it was kind of nerve wracking to try again. I know not enough foreplay can also cause issues which I originally thought was the problem as well but yea, turned out I had a yeast infection so maybe go see your doc about it?