[Kmills1]

I am not new to sex and am not self conscious at all. I used to think the reason why I never have an orgasm during sex was because I couldnt relax around my partner, he didn't last long enough, he didn't hit the spot right, ect. But I just started dating this guy and the other day, we had the best sex I have EVER had and it went on for hours. Now I know it wasn't bc I am nervous or not comfortable around him because We have been close for years and i think this is the most comfortable I've ever been around a guy. It wasn't because he didn't last long enough, or bc he didn't hit the spot right. Trust me, he did everything right. It's just frustrating that I can get off when my clit is stimulated, but cant get off during sex.

Both he and I have tried to stimulate my clit during sex but it never works. I've also tried to grind on him while I'm on top but it hurts bc it's so sensitive.

I need advice bad! Is there anything I could do to help it along? I am determined to climax during sex and any advice will be welcomed! Toys, positions, ect.

[Guest]

we all have this problem....I need to just lie next to guy for a long time, kiss, touch, but not actual penetration and then I get close to orgasm. As soon as it goes in, I feel nothing.

[jns]

Have either of you tried having an orgasm or two by masturbation or oral before having sex? Orgasms prior to intercourse can get you primed to have another one during intercourse.