[Cbb2005]

Sorry typo meant (not) back inside you

[KatyM]

Have you every tried an arousal gel?

Like other people said, there are many reasons why you don't produce enough lubrication even though you feel horny, and you should try not to feel guilty about it. Some women are just built this way, but stressing out about it, will make things worse. You could try replacing you own body's lubrication with a good old lube, but it sounds like you don't really feel up to this idea. You can also try a different route: an arousal gel. These are gels that contain either contain essential plant oils like menthol (or mint oil e.g. Zestra), or niacin (e.g. KY-intense) that induce increased blood flow and a tingling warming or cooling sensation or that contain something else that increases the blood flow to the genitals. I had a dryness problem for a while too, despite feeling horny and so I experimented with a few of these gels. I found I don't care about the cooling or warming sensation as I think it feels weird and distracting, but I found one gel that doesn't do that. It's active ingredient is supposedly a molecule the human body uses for the arousal, and it indeed works great with making me wet and also more sensitive with no distracting weirdness, so it is a lot easier to orgasm. This stuff is called Galaxis Gel and I found it on Amazon.