[roselilly4425]

Ever since I was little I've been attracted to women. I remember as early as five, I'd look at them. I kissed my best friend when I was real little, and kissed two of my friends when I was 16. I'm not sure if it's just a yearning for a stronger bond with a woman, or if I am really bi-sexual. I do watch lesbian porn and look at nude pictures of them, so I know I feel something in that sense. I've had sex with two guys, and it was fun in the beginning but then it got boring as the relationship progressed and I found myself wanting more. The feelings come and go for women. I'm not sure if I am bi-sexual or not. Anyone else have similar experiences?

[Melephant]

Yup, i have. I've been attracted to women for as long as i remember, even making the stupid mistake of 'coming out' at school and to my family only to be laughed at and tortured. Until i was about 18, i'd only ever kissed girls then one night a bloody good friend and i got drunk (she was a lesbian) and went all the way.
Not only did i ruin a real good friendship, i realised that i wasn't even bisexual. Boobs are great lol, but the other part just isn't for me.

I think most women -and maybe even men- go through, i guess 'phases' where they try to find themselves, thinking they might be bi/gay etc. But, through what i've heard, even a lot of gay men appreciate the female form and it's definitely very beautiful. So called 'girl crushes' are definitely very common and it doesn't mean anything about your sexuality.

Maybe you are not fulfilled by these men, or maybe you just get bored easily. Everyone's different. There's no harm in exploring but i would say not to rush in to putting a label on yourself. Just make sure you take your time exploring yourself and your sexuality and don't do anything stupid!

[DreamP346]

Why try to define yourself. Just do what makes you feel comfortable. People change with time. Many young people feel courageous to experiment during college. Many older women enter into women/women relationship after spending all their life being with a man. Our attractions change with time and who we define ourselves does as well. You may find yourself attracted to women but not defining yourself as a lesbian. Its all relative. Just do what makes you feel comfortable. Date women. See how you like it. Date men. Just do whats true to yourself, not what society says you should be like.