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How can I last longer when giving him head?
I have a bit of a problem here. I can't fully please my man by giving him great head because I can't do it for more than 10 to 20 second intervals then I just go back to giving him a hand job and it's really frustrating because he isn't as pleased as I would like him to be. How can I give him better and longer head without stopping? -
Chew chewing gum through the day to improve jaw strength and endurance.
Watch porn and practice emulating the techniques the girls (or guys) use.
Make sure you nose isn't blocked to assist breathing.
If you want to try deep throating him then practice will help you to learn to overcome the gag reflex."The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar -
I agree with buddhaboy's advice.
What helped me was looking up online on how to do it. Just google how to do it, and read the link descriptions before clicking on them. Reading the detailed explanation and seeing it performed through porn helped me learn to give my guy good head. Lasting the whole way through takes practice and jaw strength so don't think you'll get it in one session. Sadly, he's just gunna have to do deal with you practicing on him
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Watch some porn on "great blowjobs". The best way to learn is through seeing others and then applying it in your own life and seeing what he likes best. For me, practicing without knowing what I was doing was frustrating because I exhausted myself and still wasn't knocking his socks off. I can remember a time when blowjobs made my jaws sore, caused my teeth to cut into the inside of my lips, etc. I was doing it wrong!! A good blowjob needs to be relaxed, varied in speed and technique, lots of saliva. If you're wearing out after 10-20 seconds...I'm guessing you're putting WAY more effort into it than needed.Comment
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The only golden rule is no teeth
Saliva and enthusiasm are also key, just dribble all over him and massage it in, all over his testicles and everything, this will make it feel much nicer for him whilst your jerking him off, which brings me to my next point. You can 'buy' yourself little breaks by spitting on him and massaging the saliva into his penis slowly, this feels LOVELY."The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius CaesarComment
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I have a similar. I have mild TMJ. Or at least I believe I do. I took a putter to the jaw in gym class my sophomore year in HS. Ever since I get popping if I chew gum or open my mouth too far too quickly, etc.
My hubby is well endowed so there was plenty of popping when I started giving him oral while we were dating. Incidentally. I think he's still a bit hesitant to let me do it.
Anyway, as I initially had to find ways around the sucking. IComment
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You don't have to take the whole penis in your mouth. Just the tip. Then use your hand to pump him while your mouth is sucking. Also, it doesn't have to be sucking action the whole time. You can lick and get creative with the tongue. As long as you keep the hand job going, he will enjoy. This is just one example for anybody who has a hard time lasting. Like others recommended, read up on technique.
The other thing is you just open your mouth and let your man pump your mouth. Make sure you don't have that gag response or you use a numbing agent for thusFreedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)Comment
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