[Jewelz911]

My problem is When i have sex it doesnt feel good. All i feel is preasure and pushing. But liquid still comes out of the vagina. There was no pleasure for me. Does liquid always mean an orgasim? Or can it mean something else. I can give myself one..but sex just doesnt do it for me. Im confussed what the big hype on sex is. Its not amazing for me. I dont see what the big fuss is about, when i can pleasure myself much better by myself.

[DreamP346]

Liquids may or may not come out during orgasm although most women do get extremely wet and some women can even squirt (looks almost liking peeing). The amount of wetness also varies for each women. Some women get so wet that their partners start complaining of loosing sensation. Arousal can affect wetness, but your body can get wet even if you are not aroused but via physical touch.

I am guessing you just started having partnered sex (masturbation is also sex). Sometimes for women it take take a while to learn to enjoy sex. You need to learn what works for your body and what gives you pleasure. Are you saying all sex is unpleasant, even touching, oral, etc. Also, your partner's skills makes a big difference. Is he new to sex or maybe selfish. Does he get you off orally first (as most women cannot orgasm from penetration). Try reading a book and getting some more information. I always recommend Guide to Getting It On. Fun and easy reading.

[jns]

Jewelz, some women get very excited from penetration, others not so much and even others, not at all. To get the most of it, bring yourself or have your partner bring you to orgasm once or several times before intercourse.