Husband & I had great sex life but now he has started masturbating...a lot
So until the last few days our sex life has been incredible...I mean he is the type that totally aims to please and does every time very well! I think we both have high sex drives. We have sex morning and night everyday..and that's pretty good considering we have young children. But the last couple days I have caught him and he told me about another time...in the same day. Then today pretty sure he did it in the shower..but he deny's it. I have no issues with him doing it..in fact to me it would be very exciting to catch...but he isn't in to that. Now even that is not a big deal but when I wanted to take a private shower... it seemed ok...but then he walked in and wanted me then and there. He questions if I masturbate and I have told him of times...which he says he has no issues with..but insists that I need to be caught. I quit and finished my shower. But just saying to me there is nothing wrong with masturbation but why the double standard? BTW I masturbated yesterday somewhat out of spite...got caught..did not care...and he gave it to me..it was great. Same thing today. And we got er done last night. But other attempted times he was unable to come....made me feel kinda sad...Anyone else have issues with this?
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He should be saving his orgasms for you since that seems to be a big part of sex between you two. It may be that he wants something a little bit new and exciting. Can he please you without ejaculating or does he go limp?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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Ya he can and does...I think we've just got so wrapped up in the big O that it has led us in another direction.. so I think back to basics...lol.Comment
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