[sexyguy]

I know this is kind of a strange question. I am a guy so I have always been curious about how girls think of us. I just want to know so I can understand girls better. Would be great if you can help me out.

Question 1:
If I see a girl who I find interesting. I usually look at her face, her hair, her clothing. If I like her I will usually look at her legs, her chest, her backside etc.

What do girls do? Like what do they look at and checkout on us. I know every girl is different but tell me what you know or what you do.

Question 2:
Do girls like backsides/butts like we do?

Question 3:
Do girls feel anything sexual from looking at our body parts? Like when we see breasts, butts, etc we get hard. What does it for girls? and what do you feel? or think?

Question 4:
Do topless guys do anything for you?

Question 5:
Can checking out a fully dressed guy turn u on or anything?

I dont mean to be rude or anything. Its just Im curious how things work for a girl. Thank you for your help.

[Avatar Nirvana]

Here is my opinion:

I don't focus on anyone's butts. That is where excrement comes from.
I do if it belongs to the man I'm in love with.
Right now, I have a picture of Kurt Cobain exposing his stomach and parts of his chest, so yes. Did it do anything when I saw Michael Phelps swim for his 1 millionth medal? No, because I'm not into the really buff type.
I have more pictures of Kurt Cobain under layers of clothes than topless. I find them just as sexy.

When it comes to looks I focus on a man's face first, then move on to everything else above the waist.

[welsh-girl]

When i was single, i hardly ever looked at a guys butt or anything, it never did anything for me if i did on the odd occassion. I'm more of a if he's got a nice pair of eyes then i'm hooked. And topless doesn't do much either, only make me jelous that us girls can't get away with it on a hot day in public lol.

I think most girls go for personality more than looks, in my experience that's what is most important.

[Element]

Question 1:
If I see a girl who I find interesting. I usually look at her face, her hair, her clothing. If I like her I will usually look at her legs, her chest, her backside etc.

What do girls do? Like what do they look at and checkout on us. I know every girl is different but tell me what you know or what you do.

I look at the guy's face as a whole first. Then I look at his lips; does he have a nice smile? Do his lips look "kissable"? Then his eyes, what expressions do they carry, does he have nice colored eyes? Any piercings will always stand out so if he does have them; are they becoming to him? Then I move on to his hair, his body, how he carries himself, what "aura" does he give off? Does he look confident, happy, approachable, is everything screaming "leave me alone, stay away".

Question 2:
Do girls like backsides/butts like we do?

I'm a female who can appreciate a nice body on any person regardless of gender. So yes, I do look at butts and see if they have a nice rear end. I do see if they have a nice set of arms, nice looking legs.

Question 3:
Do girls feel anything sexual from looking at our body parts? Like when we see breasts, butts, etc we get hard. What does it for girls? and what do you feel? or think?

Eh, I'm an odd one. Females don't do anything for me, but as I just stated I can appreciate a nice looking body. But even though I am straight, even if I see a nice butt on a man, my mind just says "Eh. That's a nice one." And then I move on. I don't get wet, I don't all of a sudden want him. BUT, with my own man, I see his butt and I want to touch, give it a nice squeeze. I see his naked rear and I want to grab it and kiss him. So all in all for me, when I am with my man and I see his nice looking butt; yes, it does do something for me.

Question 4:
Do topless guys do anything for you?

With my own man; yes. I like his skin, I like feeling him. But I also don't see a chizzled man and think "oh me wanty". I don't need a buffed out man with bulging muscles. So for me, if I see a topless guy, it's just like seeing every other guy on the planet. Just another person, keep on looking at the whole world around you, there's more to see out there.

Question 5:
Can checking out a fully dressed guy turn u on or anything?

I'm all about the individual. I'm a very sarcastic, random, enjoy the moment kind of woman. I like a man who can keep up with me, deal with me, laugh with me, and match my wit. I like trading words back and forth quickly; and finding someone who can keep up and out do me is very difficult. I need a man who is intelligent and who will challenge me. I also personally believe that honor, respect and morals are forth front of what kind of human being they are. If the man is an unhonorable jackass; he'll be an ugly little thing in my eyes. So I most honestly can not answer this question for you. Sorry. Like I said before, I'm an odd one. To turn me on, I have to know you. I have to be comfortable, be able to trust you and let you in. Otherwise, my guard is up and you aren't getting into anything concerning me.

[ItsASecret]

1. I will look at a guy overall, I focus on arms though and if he has any tattoos. I do not care so much about looks I am much more into knowing if he is a dum************ or not. He could be a very nice looking man but if he cannot maintain a quality conversation then I will not bother being interested anymore.

2. Nope no interest

3. No feelings whatsoever because they are a stranger to me. I cannot be interested to a point of being wet (akin to a guy getting hard) simply by looking at some random guy on the street.

4. Not really. I mean I like a toned guy but if he is ripped I do not like it because to me that ripped look just seems too abnormal. Abnormal simply meaning not the norm, and not in a gross way unless he appears like he inflated his muscles...then that is gross.

5. Not really turn me on but I tend to appreciate seeing a guy dressed nice. To me seeing a guy looking flawless in a nice business suit or a well done casual outfit of properly fit jeans and a simple dress shirt is far better than seeing a guy without his shirt on. I tell my bf that all the time.

[tuckermeow]

Question 1:T
I always notice a guy's height, and if he is athletic (i'm a tall athlete, so i'm attracted to someone with that build). Then i'll pick up on his specific facial features, hair style and sense of style (i like shorter brown hair and laidback style). I'll notice how loudly he is speaking and the way he carries himself.

Question 2:
I like butts! i look at everyone's butt. I can really appreciate a nice round strong butt on a man too, haha. But if they don't have a butt, that's fine too. Most guy's I've been with haven't. Its just a plus. That happens to look excellent in pants.

Question 3:
A strong back will really get me thinking, even beneath a shirt... and if i see some chest hair. Or more thigh than i'm supposed to see. Nothing really gets me wet just from the visual of the body part, but it triggers some thoughts.

Question 4:
If i'm only looking and not emotionally attached or allowed to touch the guy, nah. not really.. but if it's my boyfriend, ya, everytime he is shirtless no matter what because i just want to touch him. touch touch touch touch.

Question 5:
Fully dressed works too. Clothes are really flattering. A nice pair of simple jeans and a plain tshirt that fits....or a sharp looking suit. UNF. Fully dressed will probably work out better in the long run, honestly. Because then i won't just use the man as a piece of meat that can sex me. He'll become more valuable as a emotional and intellectual human being that can carry on discussions and long-running jokes with me. If a man can mentally turn me on and get me to make an investment in him, then the sex that we could eventually have will be 1000x better. That's a turn on.

[Nholland]

Im in a relationship and very satisfied so i dont look at other men that way too much. When i see an attractive body i admire it but like a nice peice of art not in a sexually arousing way. However my man has great pecs so thays my favorite body part right now. I i was w a man w a great 6 pac thatd b my favorite. Im not a big fan of butts tho.

[Nholland]

P.s not to say that women who r turned on looking at men arent satisfied, thats just me, i kinda have blinders on. But when i do need something new to fantasize about its usually women, even tho ive never been w one and probably never will

[IzzyB95]

I certainly can't speak for all girls, and I must admit I am young and sometimes naive but I'm sure there are plenty of girls similar to me so ill do my best to help you understand how some of us think..

When I first notice a guy I am drawn to his facial features. Eyes and smile in particular. A lot about a person can be learned from noticing whether or not their smile is genuine, if they make friendly eye contact, ect. I also like to check out their posture/body language; yet another thing that unveils a little personality. Arms crossed, locked jaw=run away. Relaxed, smooth movements=approachable.

As for backsides, I am certainly not going to let a male gymnast looking butt go by without a little mm but it definitely goes unnoticed 95% of the time. It just isn't a huge turn on.

When checking a guy out I usually find myself looking at his arms/chest, even when covered. I find it attractive for a man to have substance in those areas as it leads to a feeling of safety. Strength doesn't always come from rippling muscles though. I, along with other ladies enjoy the look of upper bodies that don't appear to live in the gym. Personally, I don't get major league turned on by a clothes guy, especially considering the fact that personalities play a big role in me wanting to get it on but..

Shirtless guys yay shirtless guys. Seeing a man with his upper body exposed leads my mind to drift a little lower. I figure it is the male equivalent to seeing a well busted female wearing a revealing top.

Finally, checking out a fully dressed guy can lead me to be curious, maybe even a little warmer than I was before but it isn't a hugely overwhelming feeling. As I said previously, I enjoy the male body however I also notice and can be turned on by his personality.