[GentileBen]

I'm sorry about the "faux pas" I have been very dissapointed in what I have read else where, mostly its about commerce, marketing and the almighty dollar.

I went to the mens website "MensHealth.com" and its mostly about penis polls, medical conditions, DP, anal, and what I consider to be abberated sex.

Honestly who wants to read a manual, with diargrams, lots of scientific words that most people don't understand.

So that is why I just tried to write it in plain old english that most people understand, I mean who really understands terms like vasocongestion, myotonia or tachycardia ?

When you think about the factual account that I wrote there are no references to what I would call abberated sex, except perhaps oral (felatio), the rest is basically caressing with hands.

Most men should focus on foreplay 90% and penetration 10% to achieve orgasm in their partners.

When i say foreplay I mean your own personal hygiene, your own grooming, the clothes you wear, dining out, flowers, good wine and food, as well as chatting, the constant verbal and visual tease that culminates in cuddling, kissing and relentless caressing and then finally the ....

[Irelandlover]

You are right, we do not know who really is writing the posts. I.e whether some people here are writing to get themselves turned on rather than asking advice . That's ho0w some of the posts I have read read (the minority though I have to add).

Anyway, I do value mens opinions very much, I do think it's funny how many men have responded to this post.... perhaps though if the person posting has put "what do other women think about this" or "I'm looking to get advice from other women" etc etc men should think twice before forcing their views....

To the credit of the men here when they do offer advice or ask questions they generally tend to be very helpful and interesting.

[Irelandlover]

Ahhh!!!...Not fast enough deleting! lol. Basically, I feel it's ok for men to post as long as it's done tastefully and with the consideration that women are being addressed here and not for some sort of 'gratification', which was the feeling that seemed to be expressed in that thrilling story posted on another thread.

100% agreed.

[Little]

Honestly who wants to read a manual, with diargrams, lots of scientific words that most people don't understand.

So that is why I just tried to write it in plain old english that most people understand, I mean who really understands terms like vasocongestion, myotonia or tachycardia ?

When you think about the factual account that I wrote there are no references to what I would call abberated sex, except perhaps oral (felatio), the rest is basically caressing with hands.

Most men should focus on foreplay 90% and penetration 10% to achieve orgasm in their partners.

When i say foreplay I mean your own personal hygiene, your own grooming, the clothes you wear, dining out, flowers, good wine and food, as well as chatting, the constant verbal and visual tease that culminates in cuddling, kissing and relentless caressing and then finally the ....

This doesn't sound at all apologetic. Many of the women on this board have expressed their disgust at the porn story you posted, and that's what it was. It could be true or false, doesn't matter, it's made people uncomfortable.
So why are you defending it on another thread in a manner not asked for in this thread? It makes it seem that you want to draw as much attention to it as possible, get yourself as much attention as possible. Before you posted that, I thought you were just a guy trying to give your woman as much pleasure as possible and that's great, but posting porn puts all your other posts in a very different light.
You should watch your tongue ... or should I say your typing fingers ... for a while. Saying "I hope this is appropriate" in the middle of porn when you know it's not doesn't make for an excuse.
I really don't want this to be construed as an attack; I thought you were a nice guy before you posted that and I would like for you to be able to express your opinions again without having to be blocked by other members and without being so distasteful.

[GentileBen]

This doesn't sound at all apologetic. Many of the women on this board have expressed their disgust at the porn story you posted, and that's what it was. It could be true or false, doesn't matter, it's made people uncomfortable.
So why are you defending it on another thread in a manner not asked for in this thread? It makes it seem that you want to draw as much attention to it as possible, get yourself as much attention as possible. Before you posted that, I thought you were just a guy trying to give your woman as much pleasure as possible and that's great, but posting porn puts all your other posts in a very different light.
You should watch your tongue ... or should I say your typing fingers ... for a while. Saying "I hope this is appropriate" in the middle of porn when you know it's not doesn't make for an excuse.
I really don't want this to be construed as an attack; I thought you were a nice guy before you posted that and I would like for you to be able to express your opinions again without having to be blocked by other members and without being so distasteful.

Ok I'm a reasonable guy, what would you like me to do ?

Remove the post or edit it and tone it down ?

Best regards,

GB.