[rockstar4zombie]

My boyfriend is a cross dresser and bi, He want me to watch him and another guy then he wants to watch me and the other guy.. then all three of this!! I AM NOT OK WITH THIS!!! I have morals and I think when you are with someone it should be only the two of you.. Not fantisizing about how you want other men in bed with us whiling having sex.. Am I wrong? I am so confused. I love him but feel like I have nothing on a man.. He has lately been very mean with his words and just ignoring me.. I have moved out but I miss him alot.. Not sure what I should do..
Any advice would be great...
Thank you

[jns]

Your bf's ideas of what a relationship is and your ideas of what a relationship is are not compatible. Further, there doesn't seem to be communications so a compromise could be reached. Maybe it would be best to chalk this relationship up to a mistake and move on. Time and being busy with other things will lessen the pain of the breakup.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

My boyfriend is a cross dresser and bi, He want me to watch him and another guy then he wants to watch me and the other guy.. then all three of this!! I AM NOT OK WITH THIS!!! I have morals and I think when you are with someone it should be only the two of you.. Not fantisizing about how you want other men in bed with us whiling having sex.. Am I wrong? I am so confused. I love him but feel like I have nothing on a man.. He has lately been very mean with his words and just ignoring me.. I have moved out but I miss him alot.. Not sure what I should do..
Any advice would be great...
Thank you

He has lately been very mean with his words and just ignoring me..

My boyfriend is a cross dresser and bi, He want me to watch him and another guy then he wants to watch me and the other guy.. then all three of this!!

Re-read exactly what you have written.

He is selfish, looking after his own needs, doesn't care about yours and because you ARE NOT OK WITH THIS, he is being mean and ignoring you, what does that tell you?

Keep to your morals.... More importantly, be assertive and say NO. And, then move on.. You deserve as we all do, someone who wouldn't dream of doing anything that upset you, hurt you, nor speak down to you.