Hello, im 35 years old male. I been with my partner for over a year, and in that time i have never cum inside her. I never cum in any of my girlfriends . I do masturbate alot sometimes 3 time's a day. I know i have a problem all my life. When she is trying to masturbate me, it just don't work or feel the same where she can get me to cum. I think my body is just used to me masturbate myself, which to me is a very bad habit to have. I have stop masturbate for a week now and i try to have sex but i still could not cum. What should i do. I'm hearing i have Death Grip Syndrome. Some young men get into the habit of gripping their penis really tight when masturbating which can make it near impossible to cum during normal vaginal sex. I'm very scared right now because i wanna have a family with her. Can somebody please help me. Thank You
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I think it's gonna take more then a week to reverse years of damage. Give it a month if that doesn't work you should see a dr. Can u cum during oral? -
Keep from masturbating until you start having wet dreams or until you ejaculate in her. And stay away from porn. Rewire your brain so she is the one you go to for sex and release by continuing to do just that for anywhere from two weeks to a month (learning a new habit). No cheating. Do you have enough willpower to do this (rhetorical)? If you start having wet dreams and you still do not ejaculate in her, the problem is likely psychological. In that case you have to learn how to let yourself relax and let go. In a wet dream, when you climax, it is a case of no inhibitions. Go for the same lack of inhibitions and the lack of pressuring yourself to go over the peak.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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No i can't cum during oral sex.Comment
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Thanks JNS. I think your right it's def gonna take longer than a week and yes i have stop masturbating. I never had a wet dream either. She and other people have told me to relax and that is part of the problem i need to relax.Comment
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Sherrialicia, do you think its because i masturbate alot over the years im having a problem cuming during sex? It's really killing me insideComment
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