[illusion_killer]

Good Day All,

I am 30 and my mom is 53. My dad is 65. My mom stopped having sexual relationship with my dad 8 years back since he is old for her.

I have been noticing that my mom is having a very high amount of sex drive. I am sure it is abnormal for her because she goes for work and she gets too many men and young guys to have sex with everyday and she returns late. She gets it for free and so she has become an addict to it like getting addicted to heroin or seductive drugs. Its abnormal for her since the amount of sex she has and the polygamy and promiscuity she undergoes is way to high which is due to her uncontrollable sex drive. I am sure other women in my place are not behaving the way she does.

Recently she got excessive urination followed by sudden high fever and shivering, inability to walk during work due to urinary infection which was a result of her promiscuity and bacteria going up the tract due to excessive multiple sexual activity. But even after being treated for that, now her sexual activity has increased more, even more than before.

I am just getting afraid if this urinary infection would cause serious health problems again. I cannot advice her because she feels I am jealous of her and she shouts if I talk about it and she also denies of her promiscuity and tells her urinary infection is not due to sexual activity.

Are there any possible ways to solve this issue?

[Claret]

I'd question you as to how you know so much about what your mother does during the times she is away from the house. Does she confide in you? It appears not. What is it you are doing at home at the age of 30? Is this a problem for her or a problem for you?

[BabyGirl]

I am 30 and my mom is 53. My dad is 65. My mom stopped having sexual relationship with my dad 8 years back since he is old for her.

8 years ago they were still in their " prime" at 45 & 57 . So it seems something else is going on .

I have been noticing that my mom is having a very high amount of sex drive

As Claret asked . How do you know ? Does she tell you this ?
What do you notice that is considered a high " Sex Drive " about her ?

I am sure it is abnormal for her because she goes for work and she gets too many men and young guys to have sex with everyday and she returns late. She gets it for free and so she has become an addict to it like getting addicted to heroin or seductive drugs.

Where does she work, that she can have Sex with " Too Many Men and young Guys ", is it an Escort Service. Or is she just exercising her right to be a sensual Woman over 50 ?

Also if 8 years ago, her and your Dad, stopped having Sex between them , are you sure they do not have an " Arranged Open Marriage " where she is allowed " extras "

Its abnormal for her since the amount of sex she has and the polygamy and promiscuity she undergoes is way to high which is due to her uncontrollable sex drive. I am sure other women in my place are not behaving the way she does.

When you mention Polygamy, Are you or they of a faith that allows Polygamy. Defined below ?

The polygamists are those people that are practicing polygamy. These people have most of the time a very controversial behaviour which is not being considered as normal by the modern cultures.

Practically the polygamists are those people that are married with more than two partners. The polygamists are a totally different type of people and they should never be confused with the people that are having an affair outside their marriages.

The polygamists are practicing polygamy in three different forms that can be encountered around the world in different cultures at different civilizations.

The Polygyny - is where a man is going to have more than one wife at the same time.

The Polyandry - is the exact same thing as polygyny, except for the fact that it refers to women. So this means that a woman is going to have multiple husbands and marriages at the same time.

And Group Marriages - is where a family is going to be made out of a multiple number of husbands and multiple wives.

There are currently many cultures and religions from all over the world where the polygamists are tolerated and therefore this is going to be a common practice there. But at the same time the Christianity and the modern society is currently not tolerating the polygamists.

I am trying to find out why you say it is " Abnormal " for her ? She may not be a Polygamist at all , just very Promiscuous . And again , Does you Father know, Does he Care ?

On your Mothers sex life is "Way to High" at 53 years of age . How do you deem it your Concern or Judgement that her Sex life is Abnormal or Way too High ? She is after all a Different Woman than you are . She may have gone through Menopause and found a higher Sex Drive after that . And you Father may love her and accept that he cannot fulfill that sexual need .

Recently she got excessive urination followed by sudden high fever and shivering, inability to walk during work due to urinary infection which was a result of her promiscuity and bacteria going up the tract due to excessive multiple sexual activity. But even after being treated for that, now her sexual activity has increased more, even more than before.

She may have a STD, one received from her Very Active Sex life. Let her and her Dr's handle this . Let your Father Handle this with her .

I am just getting afraid if this urinary infection would cause serious health problems again. I cannot advice her because she feels I am jealous of her and she shouts if I talk about it and she also denies of her promiscuity and tells her urinary infection is not due to sexual activity.

Are there any possible ways to solve this issue?

You can and should be very Concerned about her Health, you should be Supportive, Loving and Help when Needed . Help her get to DR's and follow their recommendations. Chastising or Judging her, will not help.

It is hard to let Parents be Parents , live their Lives as they Chose .After all,they are the ones who Told us .. Do as I Say, Not as I Do !!

Remember when you were first getting the Sexual Urge . They set Rules for you . Because they have been Young Once themselves and didn't want you making their Mistakes. Now it seems, they taught you well .
Maybe too well, where you feel you are the" Mother "and must teach them how to be Sexually correct .

On the Jealousy. Your Mom must be a Beautiful Woman , to still have the Young Studs, clamoring for her and offering her Free Services.. And in 23 years, you may appreciate the Offers yourself . Whether you take those offers up or Not ..
Will be up to you . And your 30 year old Child will be as Concerned as you are ??




Best Wishes .

[jns]

To me, this post screams troll, but I suppose it could be true. The biggest question is "how do you know all of this?" Why does your father stay in this marriage? Does he still want sex? Why does your mother want multiple partners?

[Claret]

I agree.

[paoshee]

this is not true guys, this is a fantasy, i'm pretty sure of that,