[danb289]

Hi, i was just curious if anyone could point me in the right direction or give any advice
This is the situation
- Iv been dating my girlfriend for around 5 months, we both love eachother, and have sex on a casual basis, 5 times a week probably. She is happy with Anything to do with sex, different positions, hand jobs, doesnt mind me fingering her or going down, but she does not like giving oral sex, she has given it once or twice, and from then we had a chat, and she said she finds it uncomfortable for her to do it, im very patience and she just said the bottom line is no oral sex for you, pre much.. but she doesnt care if i give to her, so bit unfair i think, i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of either, why she is like this ( shes had no bad sexual experiances as im her first ) , im very very gentle and patience, never forcing, i love her more then anything, and i just either want to know how i can forget about oral sex, because she said just try to forget about it, but its very hard, so any advice for that would be nice or, any opinions on the situation, Thankyou, Dan

[rcoreyus]

She had made her position clear, she may change her mind later, but she may not. You need to decide how important oral sex is to you - and only you can know that. No one should be pressured to do something they don't want to do in bed, and no one should be deprived of something that is really important to them. It may be that you just are not compatible - in which case you can go your separate ways, no one's fault, no one to blame.

[DreamP346]

Giving a guy oral is not so easy. Its very unpleasant if you have a gag response. Opening your mouth and sucking for long periods of time can make your mouth feel crampy and tired. A woman may not like the taste also. Oral on a man versus a women are not the same thing so its like comparing apples and oranges. Also each person is different and like different things.

First, you need to find out what about oral she doesn't like. If its the gag response, then you can use numbing gels or try not to deep throat. If its the mouth cramping then she can focus on just licking. If its taste, then use a flavored condom.

Sometimes women don't like it because it may make them feel dominated and the action feels non-romantic. Talk and find out what the deeper reason is. Maybe you can come to a compromise.

[PinkySweet]

There quite a few women who don't like it. I use to hate doing it but as I got more experienced and learned how to control my gag a bit more it became more pleasurable for me.

[Frenchie]

I used to love giving my boyfriend oral sex, 8 months later and it is such a chore! It actually repulsed me a little now. I do feel bad as my OH is so generous when it comes to oral and he would never make me do anything I didn't want. Have a frank chat with your girlfriend and find out why she doesn't want to.

[Hajduk26]

You can try to start off slow. Like ask her to lick you while she's giving you a handjob. Essentially, make it a handjob and work oral in as she's comfortable. Make sure she knows she doesn't have to go all the way down, or even take you in her mouth. If she can't even lick you, then it's something mental. If she's had a bad experience, then maybe she had guys force her down or cum in her mouth when she didn't want them to. It's quite possibly a trust issue for her.

[uniyal38]

hi even ma position os same i Do everything on bed but why she does not go for oral

[uniyal38]

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yes it is something mental force dat restruct her eveny my wife dont like to take it into mouth she had sucked it twice in 5 years but its not worthy