[Chelsen]

Hi There,

Need some help to try and understand this situation: I recently went to Hawaii with my mom for a vacation and one night I went out and hooked up with a guy I met who lived there. He was super nice before and the sex was amazing. But when I texted him to ask him if he had a fb since I'd like to keep in touch, I haven't heard back.

When I was visiting Hawaii I also absolutely fell in love with the area I stayed and now am destined to move there. Please keep in mind I do not want to live there because of him whatsoever. The only thing about him I liked were his skills in the bed, other than that we had no connection and have nothing in common and he's not what I would want in a relationship at all, especially since I just ended a relationship of 5 in a half years.

Although, I want to ask him for advice on the area since he lives there and when I did he yet again ignored me. How can I make it clear I strictly want to keep in touch as friends for some advice and that I'm not into him at all? Or should I just let it go altogether and when I move find other friends? This is really just annoying so please help!

[DreamP346]

It was a one-night-stand. Let it go. Sometimes it can be ackward being friends after having sex. FB is also very personal for some people. Everybody sees you know each other and may ask questions. He may not be interested in being friends.

[Guest]

I agree with the comments above. I would also add that even if he does eventually respond that you not trust any information he gives you.

Why would you want to fb a guy like this anyway?

It was a one night stand for you and for him. Let it go and move on as stated above.