[TeeHicks]

My husband loves getting head but I refuse to catch that nasty, stinkin smelling stuff in my mouth. We've been together almost 5 years and married almost 3. Ill throw up....how does one stomach that stuff....I can't!

[DreamP346]

Are you looking for advice on how to swollow? If so, do a search in this section and you will find some great suggestions.

If you are just making a statement, you are not the only one. There are many women who do not like the taste.

[rcoreyus]

Some women are OK with this, some are not. To some men it doesn't matter at all, to others it is very important.

No one should feel forced to do something that they don't want. OTOH, no one should live their lives without something sexual that is very important to them. Even apparently minor things like this can become very major issues for a couple.

Is he willing to do whatever you ask for in bed? If not, then he can't expect you to do something like this for him. If he does do all he can to please you then maybe you should try. It may not be as bad as you are expecting (many women don't mind it), and if it is that horrible, even if you throw up, maybe the gesture of having really tried will mean a lot to him.

[Guest]

Does he ask/expect you to swallow? If not, then who cares? Swallowing is not the save all end all. It is merely one of a very long list of acts that one may do for their partner.

If he doesn't care then neither should you. If he does, then that's something else.

What does your husband say about it?

[rcoreyus]

Just as a note, finishing in the mouth and swallowing are different - and one may be important to him but not the other (as is the case for me). People's sexual desires are what they are - "why" something matters to someone may not have an answer.

[BabyGirl]

Can you Possibly hold it in you mouth, just long enough to Kiss him Deep and Sperm French Swallow it with him ?
That is letting him taste his own on your lips and making him have the Sperm Saliva mixed , Use allot of tongue.

And then of course, he must repay the favor, by having the taste of your orgasm while you are on a menstrual and taking your Fluids in his mouth, and of Course, filling your French Mouth with it .

If he does not choose to Swallow the " all of you " .


That would be the reason and "Trades " of a relationship .

[JasmineMarie]

I love cum... But then again, I like the smell of me... and him...

[rcoreyus]

Babygirl, I'd hope the goal is to try to do what each person enjoys, not to do things that each doesn't enjoy.

[Ashlee T.]

I don't see it as a big deal. I think it's important not to refer to it as "nasty stinky smelling stuff" as that is offensive. I'm sure if a man referred to anything about my genitals or what comes out of them as nasty or stinky smelling I'd feel unsexy and insulted. BUT, if you don't like him cumming in your mouth, I just don't see the big issue in finishing him manually. Some women are squirters. Some men would LOVE a woman to squirt in their mouth. Others wouldn't want that. I don't see the difference really.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

while you are on a menstrual and taking your Fluids in his mouth

Just the thought of that makes me feel sick.

There is compromise certainly, this sounds like revenge? I would never ever, recommend anyone do this whilst a woman is on her menstrual cycle.

OP, there are alot of threads also on the "taste" of a man's sperm. Some certainly have very strong odors, recommendation of eating pineapple for- instance changes that smell, sometimes it's diet. The average male has a "sexy" smell just as much as a woman does.

Perhaps you can get some advice in that direction through this thread.

As for sticky, I don't know why it seems to act like glue at the end sometimes But, at the end of the day, you must do what you feel comfortable with, not everything can be compromised but other compromisations can sometimes compensate for things a person does not wish to do.