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  • Sarahew
    Junior Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 2

    Need some advice...

    My fiance is uncircumcised and I have never done anything oral to him and I feel bad because he loves doing it to me.. I'm not sure how to do it or what not to do? Im lost and im not sure how to talk to him about it either.. Hes 40 and Im 22 neither of us have ever been married but we are really close and have been together for more then six months.. We have known each other and have been flirting for about a year and a half but he also a captain on a boat so hes gone for 28 days and home for 14 days.. I want to make his next trip home special because he will be on the boat for christmas, new years, and his birthday! Need any advice to make it memorable..
  • DreamP346
    • Oct 2011
    • 2053

    Have you ever performed oral on a circumsized man? If so, its the same. You don't have to do anything different.
    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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    • NubbinsUp
      Member
      • Dec 2012
      • 43

      You don't have to know which stimulation is best for him ahead of time. Tell him you're going to do this; get started, experiment with different ways of using your hands and mouth, and have him talk you through it by telling you what really feels good or asking you to make adjustments as you go, coaching you in his pleasure, just as you can and should do for him when he's down on you. in fellatio, you're the one with your mouth full, not him. He should be telling you what feels good and how good it feels while you're doing it.

      Is it different for you to put on a turtle-neck sweater rather than the crew-neck sweater you're used to? Not really. Not much. Same thing here.

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