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    what to do with my ex

    wev been togther for 7 or 8 months. i forced her to suck on me. it doesnt get pass'd kissing!shes a virgin but come on one day she will give it to someone right. then why not now


    plus her phone always rings. she talks to her guy friends infront of me. i told my cousin to keep an eye on her in college and he said she is a BIG cheat and always with guys. Few days later i called her on private and i heard guys at the back talking.so she is cheating on me. i even go past her college to see if i can catch her red handed.


    she drinks.which i hate....


    BUT WHEN I TELL HER YOU CANT TALK TO OTHER GUYS OR EVEN BE WITH THEM. why doesnt she listen to me.what sort of a gf is she.


    so i sleep with many women because they all like me. after all im a gorgeous guy

    i texted her and told her i slept with someone and she says 'OK' so that means she doesnt even love me! which women who loves you would say that.


    i broke up with her on valentine days without a reason. but didnt discuss any of these issues with her.


    then i felt like i was letting something precious go. iv never felt like this for any women beofre. my heart kept telling me dont let her go. so i badly wanted her back. her number wasent going through. i only had her msn. so i made a fake account pretending to be another guy but she caught me out. but i didnt admit it was me. so advice? 2 years on now. will she come back to me? i asked her if she was single and she said yes.
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    Your post is quite confusing so I wonder if you are confused, with how to treat a woman...

    Sounds as if, you expect and demand and then want to control.

    Not to sound harsh or rude, but this is a woman's forum and you are stating that you "forced her "...

    Bottom line is, you always want what you can't have.

    And, on a second note, no one has the right to force anyone to do anything and that includes, who they talk to or don't talk to, no one owns anyone, we are our own persons.

    Morals, respect, trust... and you could get this girl back, without those three, I would say no way.
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • DreamP346
      • Oct 2011
      • 2053

      [QUOTE=Rob Samzon;336441]wev been togther for 7 or 8 months. i forced her to suck on me. it doesnt get pass'd kissing!shes a virgin but come on one day she will give it to someone right. then why not now QUOTE]

      Actually no, she doesn't have to give it to anybody, ever, if she doesn't want to.
      Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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      • Euphoric
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2012
        • 570

        I would put up with my SO forcing me to something once, and he'd better not close his eyes around me afterward. For that matter, he'd better be looking over his shoulder because I'd get even. Who do you think you are forcing a person to do something to you? You feel entitled because someone is going to be her first, and you think it should be you.

        She talks to guys on the phone in front of you, okay, so she is not trying to hide something. Just because you heard a male voice in the background doesn't mean she is cheating. It means there was a male within ear shot.

        You admit to having your cousin follow her and you drive by trying to catch her red handed. That is STALKING.

        You don't get to determine who she can and can not talk to. She is an individual.

        You think you are gorgeous, but beauty in only in the eye of the beholder! Therefore, you sleep with many women. What?? You think she shouldn't talk to other guys but you have the right to sleep with other women??

        Will she come back to you?? Not if she's smart. You treated her like crap.

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        • Baboy
          Veteran Member
          • Aug 2012
          • 774

          Let's not feed the trolls.
          I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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          • avoz
            Junior Member
            • Jan 2013
            • 1

            Assuming OP is not a troll, he/she is successful because I normally wouldn't register or even post, but for the chance that you're real I need to respond.

            The girl sounds like she isn't into you. She talks to other guys in front of you, she doesn't respect what you want, and she doesn't care that you sleep with other people. You are in a relationship with your imagination. You sound ignorant and pathetic. You're obviously a control freak who has lost grasp over some aspect of your life and is trying to do anything they can to compensate for it. That could either be manifested in your perception of your physical endowment, or your own sexuality. I hope you never see her again, and she finds a real man who can give her something that someone as egotistical and self important as you can never give a woman, an orgasm.

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            • nicole_3512
              Member
              • Jan 2013
              • 75

              Originally posted by Rob Samzon

              so i sleep with many women because they all like me. after all im a gorgeous guy

              ....... your mad she cheats ..... yet you do it....

              and you only dont want to let her go because now you cant have her... its simple guy logic.... want what you cant have.

              .... you made another account to try and trick her... bro she cheats on you and you cheated on her... trust doesnt even exist let alone love.

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              • Baboy
                Veteran Member
                • Aug 2012
                • 774

                avoz,

                Like you, I was strongly tempted to come on like gangbusters and tell the OP what I really thought. I still suspect trollism (a word not yet in the dictionary, I dare say).

                However, I think you might be in for a bit of a dressing down from the mods hereabouts. This is a genteel forum and a flaming initial (or even 10,000th post) is generally frowned upon. That said, I concur in your remarks. I suppose endorsing a flame is tantamount to publishing one. Oh well.
                I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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                • Little
                  • Feb 2007
                  • 4329

                  There is a report button at the bottom of each post. If you don't have something constructive to say - understanding that constructive things are often negative opinions of the OP's actions - don't reply. Calling another poster a troll is not acceptable, even in the most obvious of situations. That's the call for a mod or admin to make - if you note, another admin already replied to this thread!

                  As the OP hasn't been back and the thread has taken a mean turn, closing.
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