I'm a 19 year old virgin and embarrassing as this is, I went really far and while fingering myself this time and I kinda squirted? out a lot of blood and fluid. It stained the sheets and everything. It doesn't hurt at all and this is the first time ANY of this has ever happened to me and I'm really scared. Does this mean I broke my hymen? I wanted the first time that happened to be with my partner who I haven't had sex with yet. What can I do?
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If it wasn't time for your period and you went really far while fingering yourself, then yes, you probably broke your hymen. What can you do? If you broke your hymen there is nothing you can do to reinstate it, if that's what you're asking. The only thing you can do now explore yourself and what turns you on
There is no reason to be scared. Try to look at like this, you can pleasure yourself without a barrier now. Knowing what feels good and turns you on will be more important than having a hymen that is intact when you become sexually active with a partner.
Keep in mind that many women have broken their hymen playing sports and riding horses. You are fine!! -
Id still get it check out though. Even if the docs say your perfectly fine its best to check. Ive never heard of that happening before, i have when a girl breaks her vaginity and tears a little but not from masterbating. Maybe you could try a soft toy that you can play with instead of with fingers. Theyre quite cheap on sites like love honey. Dont ever feel like you doing anything wrong tho its normal to explore your self :-))Comment
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sounds to me like you popped your cherry.Comment
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Sounds like you broke your hymen....Comment
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I concur, it sounds like you broke your hymen. It's nothing to be scared or ashamed over. As long as you are not having vaginal pain and consistent discomfort, I'd say you're all right. It's not uncommon for a girl to break it during sports or masturbation. Just because you no longer have a hymen doesn't mean you are not a virgin! An untouched body means you are a virgin, in my opinion... you cannot lose your virginity from solo sex or inserting something in your vagina, whether it be your finger or a tampon. Think of it that way.Comment
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yea it sounds like a broken hymenLife is not worth living without love <3Comment
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You broke your hymenComment
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