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  • Jasmin111
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 9

    SO CONFUSED

    Ok, so I, lately I dicided to start having sex with a guy, but im not on the pill/patch and he doesnt like to wrap it up. he hasnt ejaculated in me, but after the second time I started to feel strange. My hunger has been quiet, and when I do eat I never finish, and my period has been erotic as well (but that was before the sex.) Im so terrified that Im peregnent and my parents will flip because we just me, and broke up.
    and one more thing, on our 3rd (and final time) I looked down and noticed something what and kind of bubbly and it didnt cross my mind as semen, because he hadnt finished.
    what's going on with my body- recap
    - crazy period dates
    -no real real preggo feeling
    -cant eat .
  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    Get a pregnancy test and find out if you are pregnant - no reason to delay.

    You can get pregnant even if he doesn't finish inside of you. If you don't want to become pregnant, and you have sex, you really need to use some form of protection or it is only a matter of time - and not much time.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Do you remember when you started your last period? When was it? Pregnancy tests are generally more accurate a couple weeks after having sex. Google [wiki Calendar based contraceptive methods] and go to the Wikipedia hit.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • dyunysus
        Member
        • Mar 2010
        • 34

        Ok, the male perspective here. I think yes you might be pregnant, i can never understand guys who say i dont like condoms. Rule of thumb if he knows you are not on any kind of birth control and he still won't wear a condom, then he does not deserve you in the first place. He should respect the fact that you don't want to get pregnant and use a condom, even if you are on birth control. Pills, depo, IUD, don't stop STD's, however condoms can prevent most of them.

        Its simple if the man truly cares for you and respects you he will do whatever it takes to make you comfortable. It that simple.

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