[LadyBug91]

I don't know why, but every time my boyfriend fingers me it burns. Even when he barely puts his fingers in me, it's like this horrible stinging/burning and it always ruins the moment and I feel like there is something wrong with me. We have tried to have sex a couple times and both times he couldn't go even half way in because it burns. Could this have anything to do with the fact that I'm a virgin? I know it hurts the first time, but I'm almost sure that it isn't supposed to hurt that much. I just want to know if there is something wrong with me, because it's really upsetting for both of us. I can't afford to go to the doctor to find out if there is anything wrong, but I've been in the past 6 months and they didn't seem to find anything wrong except the fact that I had a possibly yeast infection. I get those kind of frequently... I've had about 3-4 in the past few years. Could that be it too? I just took an antibiotic a few weeks ago for it...

[DreamP346]

Its possible you have an yeast infection. Do you have any symptoms?

First time can be painful and for some women it takes a long time before they get comfortable with it. Take is slowly. Have him or yourself stimulate your clit and area about the vulva instead of just fingering. Only try fingering when you are super excited and lubricated. Try having an orgasm, either via manual or oral stimulation before fingering. Do one finger at a time. It will take time. Take your time and don't rush things.

[MoeJr]

Agree with SP sounds like yeast infection. On another note, what does he do for a living? I ask because my now ex used to have similar trouble. I could wash my hands a hundred times and she would still get what you describe. Eventually I linked it to chemicals I use in my business, once I started using gloves when working with them. (which I should have been doing anyway) Her discomfort stopped. Just a thought.