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  • a_dub
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 514

    Possible penis problem.

    I just wanted to get an opinion and see if other women have experienced this in their partners.

    When I get an erection, its very "inflexible" for lack of a better word. And by that I mean that I can push my penis down so that the glans points directly in front of me...ie the penis is at a 90 degree angle to my abdomen. But I can't push it down any further. I can get it a little further with considerable pain, but only very slightly. Any further and it would just rip off.

    I've had sex in missionary position, without any major problems. But thats the only position I've ever tried. From what I've seen, positions like doggy style, and reverse cowgirl with her leaning well forward would be difficult and impossible, respectively due to my lack of "flexibility".

    So the question is, has anyone had sex with a guy like this? Is it possible to do it in those positions? Is there any way to increase the flexiblity of my erect penis?

    Thanks.
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    When doing a doggy style variant, you can have her lying flat on the bed or slightly raised in the middle. Alternately she could be leaning over the edge of a bed while you lean over her.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • a_dub
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2011
      • 514

      Originally posted by jns
      When doing a doggy style variant, you can have her lying flat on the bed or slightly raised in the middle. Alternately she could be leaning over the edge of a bed while you lean over her.
      Thats true. Plus, if I recall correctly, the vagina naturally angles up and backwards into a woman's pelvis which should help.

      However, the reverse cowgirl position where the girl is leaning forward towards the guys feet with her palms on the bed seems impossible. And I feel I'd be missing out cuz that position looks hot as hell.

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      • MichelleMyBelle
        Junior Member
        • Jan 2013
        • 2

        My husband's penis is just like this and although we havent been able to do reverse cowgirl successfully because it simply doesnt bend that way, we havent had any problems doing regular cowgirl, doggy or spooning (we just have to position our bodies so his penis goes straight in and doesnt need to bend downward so since im really short he needs to spread his legs during doggy to get down to my level) but it works perfectly fine and we dont have any complaints about it. Dont worry about and just experiment

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        • Guest

          It's only a problem IF you allow it to become one by it interfering with your intimacy or messing with your head. Find positions that work for you, I am quite sure there are many, and switch them up as necessary.

          As they say..."variety is the spice of life".

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          • Harmony
            Veteran Member
            • Nov 2012
            • 311

            Originally posted by a_dub
            I just wanted to get an opinion and see if other women have experienced this in their partners.

            When I get an erection, its very "inflexible" for lack of a better word. And by that I mean that I can push my penis down so that the glans points directly in front of me...ie the penis is at a 90 degree angle to my abdomen. But I can't push it down any further. I can get it a little further with considerable pain, but only very slightly. Any further and it would just rip off.

            I've had sex in missionary position, without any major problems. But thats the only position I've ever tried. From what I've seen, positions like doggy style, and reverse cowgirl with her leaning well forward would be difficult and impossible, respectively due to my lack of "flexibility".

            So the question is, has anyone had sex with a guy like this? Is it possible to do it in those positions? Is there any way to increase the flexiblity of my erect penis?

            Thanks.
            My penis is the same, I have done reverse cowgirl (a long time ago) but it also requires some flexibility on the woman's behalf too. A kind of variation of reverse cowgirl (and one of my favorites) is to sit back in a reclining armchair or something and 'do it' like she's sitting on your lap. This is - in my opinion - better than reverse cowgirl. It requires the woman to have a relative amount of strength and flexibility and not all girls like it, but find yourself one who does or who is prepared to give it a go and I think you'll be pleasantly surprised. Also, missionary is my favorite position and despite it's connotations of being 'vanilla' actually offers great scope for variation.

            Concentrate more on what you CAN do, there's no point on dwelling on what cannot be done, because, well... it can't be done.
            No matter how objective we try to be, we all see through our own eyes...

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