I have a friend who has been complaining of her bf constantly watching porn. I know that is normal but he is watching a lot of shemale or transsexual porn and gay porn. Is he just curious and its normal or should she be concerned about him being gay?
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I wouldn't worry too much, I watch a fair amount of shemale porn, I'm not Gay or Bi its just a way to let out the kinkiness in me!
Has your friend tried to talk to her partner about it? Perhaps there's something she can do for him, strap-on's are frequently a fantasy of people who watch shemale porn
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Never heard of a straight guy watch gay porn, sorryComment
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He may just be a bit kinky. He might be bi, but that isn't necessarily a problem for the relationship. Most people are attracted to people in addition to their partners - that doesn't mean that they need to ever act on that attraction.
mojojojo's comment may be correct - good chance that if he likes this sort of porn he might enjoy gender-bending / strapon type play. Of course this may be outside of your friend's comfort zone. I don't know how many women find this sort of thing acceptable, maybe I'll try a survey.Comment
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i think your friend needs to have an honest and open conversation with her bf if she is actually concerned. after a talk, she will probably feel better about the situation. i myself do not like watching 2 men together but occasionally (every couple of months) like watching a man masturbate. i do not consider myself gay or bi and never had sexual contact with a man. others very well may think i am gay because of this. oh well, i don't care. it doesn't change how i feel about my wife and it doesn't take away from our sex together.Comment
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There is a website called 'your brain on porn' which explains the link between porn, dopamine and sexual arousal.
In a nutshell: As your brain becomes adapted, it requires more and more 'extreme' pornography to elicit the same level of dopamine response.
It can take months to restore normal function (i.e. getting sufficiently aroused by 'normal' porn that you can achieve gratification) but normal function IS possible... if you stop watching pornography.
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shemale at times ok.. but gay porn ???? shud really ???Comment
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