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  • time2discover
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 323

    Vagina opening-Women's point of view!

    After reading a thread from 2008 and all it's answers, it made me want to ask this question:

    How does the size of your vagina opening affect you and your sex life?

    Does giving birth really affect it?

    Thanks ahead for your input!

    I'll give my own opinion also!
  • time2discover
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 323

    I met my husband I was seventeen, so hardly any experience.(just the one time before)
    He has a good 9inches, and width I figure to be average.(never measured)

    But my experience is, never felt any pain or tightness actually sometimes it even felt a little loose.
    Had 2 children and even then did not notice a difference. Today I'm 44 and do believe it hasn't got
    larger or smaller(although again, I'm talking from feeling and not measures)

    For the sex point of view, I don't think it played a major role in my stimulation except for maybe oral,
    which doesn't do much for me, but I always figured that just wasn't my thing.

    Thanks again!

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    • Guest

      generally the size of your vagina opening doesn't affect you and your sex life coz its dynamic, it can expand elongate to some extent n depends on tone ( thats y people do kegel exercise)

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      • Imjustagirl86
        Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 32

        Being petite, Im petite everywhere...to be polite about it. My boyfriend is above average, he still hurts me after 4 years of being together. It doesnt ruin sex, I enjoy highly, but it still can hurt me. I havent had any kids either.

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        • LisaW1991
          Senior Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 128

          Originally posted by Imjustagirl86
          Being petite, Im petite everywhere...to be polite about it. My boyfriend is above average, he still hurts me after 4 years of being together. It doesnt ruin sex, I enjoy highly, but it still can hurt me. I havent had any kids either.
          I can relate to what you are saying, I am very petite too, and for me to have sex I need to be fully aroused otherwise it can hurt and\or intercourse is practically impossible. I need a full 30 minutes to 1 hour of foreplay to reach the stage of excitement where my vagina is ready for sex. Once I get there, its not a problem even when the guy is extra large. When I first started having sex I didn't know much, so it took a couple of years to figure things out. I was pretty young my first time, and its kinda to be expected that I learned by experimenting with my bfs.

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