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  • time2discover
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 323

    It really turns me on! Should it?

    We all have things that attract us physically to a woman or man.(nice boobs, cute butt)

    But I wonder if others, like me, are attracted by other things not so regular?
    I'm not talking about a fetish here.

    Here goes: When I see a man working outside on a hot summer day and sweating or during
    a physical activity, like sports, it really makes me hot!!

    Do you have different something less common that turns you on? Man or woman, give me
    your opinion.
  • Euphoric
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 570

    t2d,

    Of course. Physically fit men who maintain their personal appearance is always a turn on. However, as I reflect on your question, some of the things I find most attractive are due to characteristic qualities. A man playing with his children and enjoying them rather than brushing them off as a pain in the butt is attractive. Another example: someone who helps volunteers with turtle patrol at the beach, making sure the nests are safe and at the time of hatching, willing to come out at midnight and make sure the baby turtles make it back to the water. The person who opens a door and waits patiently while an elderly couple slowly enters or exits a building.

    So besides physically fit, gorgeous guys, for me it is about their heart, too.

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    • time2discover
      Veteran Member
      • Feb 2013
      • 323

      I agree with you Euphoric, their heart and other characteristics attract me to a person as a whole.

      But this from a physical point of view, I was reffering to the sweat turning me on! Not his actions
      making him sweaty!

      Maybe I wasn't too clear in my question. What physically makes you wanna go for someone, there and
      then, that may be a little out of the ordinary!

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      • Bladyn'smommy16
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 618

        The actual smell of the sweat or the look of it?

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        • Guest

          quiet natural, not very unusual, u shud go to some fitness center

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            When I look at a woman, I look at her face to see if there is something there that I find attractive. Amongst other things I look at her grooming at that time. I also look at the curvature of her hips, butt and legs. Other things like musculature, hair style, painted nails, etc. can be attractive in some cases, but are not turn ons in general. A woman's personality, if it is what I like, is much more of a turn on.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • time2discover
              Veteran Member
              • Feb 2013
              • 323

              If I went to a fitness center, they might have to call security! (Just kidding of course!)

              The smell, look and feel of it!

              I don't mean, of course, a dirty smelly man, but a clean man's natural reaction to the elements
              at that moment.

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              • time2discover
                Veteran Member
                • Feb 2013
                • 323

                I agree 100% jns. That's the most important part in developing a relationship with someone.

                Again, my question is more of a physical nature. Nothing you're usually gonna act on, unless
                it's with your partner.

                Example, when your at the beach and this person is playing beach volley, I like to watch the
                build up of sweat while he puts all his energy into it.

                Maybe after all, it's just a sign for me that he gave it all he's got and that's what really turns
                me on. Who knows?

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                • Guest

                  when u see a woman sweating in gym ur subconscious mind understands something else......

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                  • Guest

                    and jns everything about a woman can be attractive

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