[Celt31]

I have been dating a guy for a few weeks and everything has been great. This past weekend, however, we got into a discussion that maybe we should put our relationship on hold as he will be traveling around the country for the next month attending interviews and working on finishing his post-doc (ie- he is VERY busy). I am also a little weary about getting too attached to a person who may be moving to another city in a few months.

We agreed to talk in a few weeks after he has a better idea of where he will end up. In the meantime, I am a little worried he will meet someone else or forget about me altogether. I would really like to keep him interested, and not just by shooting texts now and then. I want to do something fun as he will probably be very stressed so I was thinking of sending him some sexy pictures in a few weeks. Not sure if this is weird or too forward for people who are not technically in a relationship (we have been intimate so its not like he hasn't seen the 'goods' before). I'm not planning on being completely "revealed" in these photos and probably won't show my whole face, just to avoid issues in case they get leaked.

Any advice would be appreciated. Just wondering if this is a good idea or not...

[Palerider]

It should be safe so long as you aren't showing your face. What will you be revealing/wearing in these photos? Will he be masturbating to them? Have you all considered phone sex too?

[Celt31]

I have no idea. Our communication is more or less cut-off due to mutual agreement...and frankly I just hate talking via text or phone. But I thought this would be more "life-like" I guess? And hoping it will not only be fun for both of us but that he will be very excited to see me when he gets back

[Element]

If communication is cut off, I think sending sexy photos to try and keep him as yours is going a bit too far.

[time2discover]

Won't bother anyone if you send them(he's not seeing anyone), just don't set
yourself up for something that might never happen. If you agreed with him for
the break, you have to expect anything. Don't sit there and put your life on hold.

[Debra20]

I dont think its good. My mom said they always end up on the internet and everybody can see.

[BabyGirl]

I have been dating a guy for a few weeks and everything has been great. This past weekend, however, we got into a discussion that maybe we should put our relationship on hold as he will be traveling around the country for the next month attending interviews and working on finishing his post-doc (ie- he is VERY busy). I am also a little weary about getting too attached to a person who may be moving to another city in a few months.

He is probably a Great Guy .

But if you agree to not be in a Relationship,You and He together . Like Wedding or Vacations Photos and the Very Private Ones.

Trying not to be to Personal here ..

But where is yourself Respect. Do you really think that sending him a naked or near naked photo of you .. Will make him only want to be with You ?

He basically already said " Nice Frick ". He is moving on,
probably to his Wife & Kids .

Naked Photo's to ANYONE here on the WWW. Will show up ..

[nic22]

I don't think there is any harm in doing that at all, likes others have said don't include you face. I have done this several times and to be honest its a huge turn on for me doing it. I guess I like to show my suff. LOL.

[Harmony]

If he has a legitimate reason/excuse/justification for not seeing you for a while, and you're not in an 'official' relationship then give him his space.

If he likes you and wants to take things to the next level then he will make an effort to maintain at least some contact. I don't care HOW busy someone is, I've worked 8o hour weeks before and left London to go on holiday to Indonesia and I've never NOT been able to send a text, an email or a facebook message; people still manage to make phone calls from prison! If he wants to maintain some contact then he will.

If he thinks it was just fun then he may not, sorry. If you've made a mutual agreement to cut contact then observe that, there's no harm in a quick 'how are things? Good luck x' message, but if he doesn't reply leave it at that. If things get saucy then go for the 'artistic' picture, but don't fly straight into it x

As a man yes, sexy pictures are great :-)

[courtneybrown_]

My boyfriend lives in another city and occasionally I'll send him a sexy or naked pic just for a nice wake-up surprise and to keep him excited to see me when I go down once a month to visit him. They can end up on the internet, this is true, but if you really trust the person you're sending them to to not show anyone or upload them on any website then go for it! I know my boyfriend would never do that to me so I don't feel embarrassed about sending them.