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  • mtmockler
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 3

    how anal feels to women

    I've read an overwhelming number of testimonials from women who've enjoyed anal. I've gotten passed the pain part,I've tried missionary, behind, lots of lube, fingers. My boyfriend is a little above average so there's no issue there. But despite all the effort to enjoy it with him I can't get passed the fact it feels like I just have to poop!
    I haven't heard women say I don't like it from any one who's tried it.

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    I just wanna know if it's normal
  • Italian08
    Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 21

    How do u get passed it not hurting and how do u clean it out isn't there poop on the penis when he pulls out my bf wants to do anal.but I'm scared I've done it woth my ex and it hurt

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    • mtmockler
      Junior Member
      • Mar 2013
      • 3

      He kept asking so I gave it to him, so I guess I stretched out cause The last time it didn't hurt. Also whether I see poop or not I make him wash his penis with soap and water as soon as he's done, cause that's nasty.

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      • time2discover
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 323

        It takes a while to relax with anal. My husband kept asking me and I was afraid.
        So one time during intercourse he used his finger and that really excited me! Since
        then, I've slowly tried getting to full anal penetration but I'm not quite there yet
        either. A little bit at a time and we'll relax. Don't worry, it's normal.

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        • Magnetism
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2009
          • 1060

          I would like to try to enjoy anal at some point in my life. In the past, it has been painful with lube. It feels like you have to excrete. Butt plugs and fingers feel fine to me. I think being in a trusting and secure relationship will help.
          "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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          • Italian08
            Member
            • Dec 2012
            • 21

            I have done anal with my ex once he used his fingers too and tht felt ggood but my.bf now is a little bigger than the ex so.I'm nervous

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            • SUZE
              Member
              • Sep 2012
              • 24

              anal sex its avery painful

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              • Element
                Veteran Member
                • Jun 2012
                • 308

                I enjoy anal. My man has experience with this and knows how to go about it slowly and respectively. If a man knows what he's doing and has the patience to wait for the woman to be ready for it, read her, know what's good and bad; then it has a chance to succeed. As long as the build of the woman's body is made for it.

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                • InLove19
                  Junior Member
                  • Mar 2013
                  • 2

                  its ok

                  Originally posted by mtmockler
                  I've read an overwhelming number of testimonials from women who've enjoyed anal. I've gotten passed the pain part,I've tried missionary, behind, lots of lube, fingers. My boyfriend is a little above average so there's no issue there. But despite all the effort to enjoy it with him I can't get passed the fact it feels like I just have to poop!
                  I haven't heard women say I don't like it from any one who's tried it.

                  .

                  I just wanna know if it's normal
                  I have tryed it with my fiance, and its not my favorite, but its not bad, ik what you mean with how it feels. i am pretty sure part of it is mental, and thats something we just have to get over.

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