low libido at 50
We are a married couple close to 50.
Our sex life was not too good because my wife did not enjoy vaginal intercourse.
She always felt pain and discomfort.
We did in the past some attempt to find the roots of her problem but she felt reluctant to speak about.
Anyhow she always had orgasm by manual or oral stimulation and intercourse was only for my pleasure and usually after I was very aroused in order to keep it as short as possible.
Still recently situation seems to be a bit worst because she is less and less willing to become intimate with me on one hand and I start loosing my confidence on the other.
That because now she is interested more to bring me to orgasm as fast as possible, using her mouth and hands, and I enjoy less and less entire process.
Sometimes she told me that I have what I need and she do not need it at that particular moment.
We are gradually moving into a sexless marriage direction.
I know you will find this highly unusual but my problem is not about not having real intercourse with her because I am use with this. My problem is now about her lack of desire about becoming intimate even in the "strange" way we are use to do it.
Our sex life was not too good because my wife did not enjoy vaginal intercourse.
She always felt pain and discomfort.
We did in the past some attempt to find the roots of her problem but she felt reluctant to speak about.
Anyhow she always had orgasm by manual or oral stimulation and intercourse was only for my pleasure and usually after I was very aroused in order to keep it as short as possible.
Still recently situation seems to be a bit worst because she is less and less willing to become intimate with me on one hand and I start loosing my confidence on the other.
That because now she is interested more to bring me to orgasm as fast as possible, using her mouth and hands, and I enjoy less and less entire process.
Sometimes she told me that I have what I need and she do not need it at that particular moment.
We are gradually moving into a sexless marriage direction.
I know you will find this highly unusual but my problem is not about not having real intercourse with her because I am use with this. My problem is now about her lack of desire about becoming intimate even in the "strange" way we are use to do it.
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