[EagerToLearn]

Hello, I am a 20 year old male currently in a relationship with my girlfriend. We have not had intercourse but we do partake in oral sex as well as with our hands or (fingers). She is not my first partner to do these activities with but I do have a question about you women.

How many times do you orgasm in one "sitting"? Like how many orgasms does your partner give you? I would appreciate it if you could specify between sexual intercourse and fingering (I do not know the correct term for this) I would greatly appreciate it if any of you women could help me, as I am always trying to maximize her pleasure.

If any are curious, the average amount I give my girlfriend is 4 to 5 times a day. Of course there are cases in which the number is higher, or she can become sore afterwards from too many that day or the next few days. However that is another question.

Very Respectfully,
EagerToLearn

[MunroNicolson]

I have seen women that were multi-orgasmic to the point that they could have anywhere from 20 and up orgasms and then some women may only have 5. Some women can't come from vaginal penetration only from oral can they achieve orgasm.

[Alexandra]

Honestly, there is no "average" amount of orgasms. Twenty seems a little excessive, but I've heard of that happening. Some women cannot/do not orgasm at all. Every woman is unique and different. Is your partner happy with the amount? If the answer is 'yes', I'd say that's all that matters!

[Harmony]

If you're giving your partner an average of 4-5 orgasms per day then I'd very confidently day this is a case of, 'it's not broken so don't fix it'. It sounds like you're doing fine. Whilst it doesn't happen very often nowadays, I actually think one of the best ways to cultivate a healthy, mutually satisfying and sexually charged relationship is to not have sex straight away and start by exploring - an getting to know - each others bodies and 'sweet spots' before moving on to having full sex.

I can tell you as a matter of fact that the vast majority of women would say agree that you're on the right track; honest communication is key here, just be honest with each other about what does and doesn't work for you and the fireworks will continue :-)