[chubz23]

There, I said it. I need help "figuring out" fat sex. It's mostly my fault. My SO is slightly overweight, but he carries it well and really doesn't have much of a stomach (Now me? I do. It's that lovely apron of fat, you know the one I'm talking about). However, because he is still slightly overweight he has the large mound of fat around his penis and it makes penetration, along with my big thighs and my OWN mound of fat, a little difficult. I also have a pretty big behind, so anal has been hard to accomplish, too. I love him to death and I love what we do, but I worry that in the meantime while I'm losing weight, the lack of PIV will drive him crazy. He's very sweet about it and we do other things. Now, tack onto this a height difference. I am 4'9'' and he is significantly taller (can't remember how tall exactly, but I want to say 5'7'').

What are some positions we can try? I try not to make actual PIV and orgasm the focus of being intimate, but I'm still always looking for new positions we can try, and so far none have been that great. Because of the height difference I can't really be on top because I can't actually touch the bed and therefore cannot thrust.

The two positions we haven't tried yet are me pulled to the edge of the bed, or on/bent over a counter.


I really hope things get better when I start to lose weight. I don't mind it at all, but he's a guy, and I worry it bothers him and he thinks it's his fault.

[jns]

Have you two tried doggy style? You may to put some pillows under your knees to get a match in height. It is usually one of the deeper penetration positions.

Are your legs reasonably flexible? Can he straddle one of your legs and lift the other one as you lie on your side or partway between on your side and on your back? The more your leg is bent, the more it stretches out your flesh and muscles. If it works, he has to scoot up and penetrate sideways.

See sites like sexinfo101 for cross and scissors for ideas.

[chubz23]

We've tried doggy, and so far it hasn't worked, though I think it would have, had we kept trying. And I'd like to think my legs are, so we could try. That's the only one we haven't tried yet. Thanks for the suggestions

[jns]

If you can get a hand free, help guide him in.

[Harmony]

You on your back with your legs wide open with a pillow under your bottom. That should allow him to enter you about as deep as he'll be able to get.

[caster]

Like jns discribes.
Lie on your side with the bottom leg straight, bend your other leg up pulling your thigh toward your chest, he can straddle your bottom leg, his belly will be above your butt, your pulled up leg stretches your glute to make it smaller and easier access to enter you. The further you rotate your chest down toward the bed and the higher you pull your leg up the more open you'll become. Bet he doesn't last long the first time... Plus, it's just a fun postion anyway.