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  • T-T
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 1

    Worried about masturbation

    This is terribly embarrassing but I want to make sure I am doing something right. When I masturbate I grind against the bed with my hands. I have tried using my fingers but it feels really weird. I only get pleasure from the grinding. Will it hurt me in any way?
  • Chrysanthemum7
    Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 39

    nope

    I dont think it would hurt you as long as you dont go like hardcore or something like that have fun!
    Life is not worth living without love <3

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    • michelled
      Member
      • Dec 2011
      • 41

      You should be fine. Don't worry.

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        Experiementing and finding what is your nieche is what finding is about.

        You are enjoying cliteral stimulation as apposed to viginal stimulation.

        Normal
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • Harmony
          Veteran Member
          • Nov 2012
          • 311

          Lots of chicks like grinding, I wouldn't worry one iota.
          No matter how objective we try to be, we all see through our own eyes...

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Are you grinding your clitoris into your hands or your vagina into your hands while face down or against the edge of the bed? You are reaching orgasm, which is good. Your method isn't really easy to do in a lot of places and may not me easy for someone else to do on you. How long does it take? Maybe you can find other techniques by continuing to explore. If nothing else, you still have a reliable method.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • anonimousey
              Member
              • Jan 2011
              • 68

              It sounds like you don't really like this grinding thing, but feel it should work for you.

              Be more in touch with your body, if you're not reacting positively to something you're doing then stop.

              Maybe you're dry down there, try some oils (Durex do some good ones), it's pretty hot when you're all slippery.

              Also, are you putting your fingers into your vagina too early? I could never get even a little bit turned on if i shoved my fingers up there. Feel your body, watch some porn, read some erotic literature, just find what's right for you

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