[brookemaine]

I am in a relationship and I am completely comfortable with my boyfriend, so that is not the issue at all. I feel like my genital area is not very sensitive to the touch, I have tried to masturbate and it does not work at all. It seems that when I do enjoy sex it is the mental thoughts that turn me on and then it feels good but I just don't seem to be very sensitive down there.

I need help. I want sex to be better but don't know what to do. I think it might be a physical problem. Do I need to take some kind of hormones or something? I don't know.

Also, my nipples are not sensitive at all either.

[Chrysanthemum7]

I used to not be able to orgasm. Just try to relax and maybe use a toy. Light some candles and make yourself feel sexy. good luck!

[sungem77]

are you having enough foreplay? try not going directly to genital stimulation instead get warmed up first. how about a massage? also, if mental thoughts get you aroused, then think them! can you ask your boyfriend to talk dirty to you? not everyone gets off the same way. try not to compare yourself to others.