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  • AmberZuchaur
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2013
    • 1

    Continuing to stimulate clit after orgasm?

    So, my boyfriend and I started experimenting with bondage a few months back. After a month or so I asked him to try a vibrator while I was tied up(one of those magic wands), and it was the first time I actually had a real orgasm.

    Anyway, I came across this video where they would set a timer then leave the vibrator there for 20 minutes, and it looked intense!

    I haven't actually tried going past the first orgasm, but I was wondering how it feels.

    It looks kind of painful, but also really pleasant at the same time. Have any of you tried this, and if so how does it feel?

    -Thanks
  • Euphoric
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 570

    You may want to be careful using a powerful vibrator for an extended amount of time. I'm all for using mechanical aids to help you get to the point of orgasm, but at the height of climax it can be too stimulating. Continuing to use it to the point of causing pain can also desensitize your clitoris, therefore, making climax harder to achieve or making you hypersensitve well after the "event" has ended. It is definitely possible to use light vibration to achieve multiple orgasms, but the amount of pressure will definitely need to be varied and often used intermittently. Using a vibrator, particularly powerful plug-in models, for a prolonged period can cause damage if not used carefully. Explore and have fun, but do so carefully.

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    • Harmony
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2012
      • 311

      Sounds like fun, I would make sure you have a safe word or agree on some kind of signal so that if you need the device removing your BF can withdraw it straight away.

      I'd say with something like this just go by 'feel' so by all means experiment by carrying on but be open to having a little break between orgasms if necessary. I would also experiment with different devices, those rampant rabbits do the business too, so using one and then switching to another may yield greater pleasure.
      No matter how objective we try to be, we all see through our own eyes...

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Following what did it for me in my younger days, the best way is to not stimulate as much or not at all after peaking on orgasm due to hypersensitivity (women are similar to men, but usually with a much shorter refractory period). Wait a little while or a bit longer, then start again. This worked for giving multiple orgasms.
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