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  • AnonGirl
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2013
    • 1

    Help

    Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times, and it hurts when he gets to a point. I've been looking online and I've realized that it's my cervix probably, but does that ever stop hurting?
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    If you get fully aroused and perhaps have one or several orgasms the cervix should move up and out of the way during sex.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • DreamP346
      • Oct 2011
      • 2053

      Certain positions that have deeper penetration like doggie style tends to hit the cervix. Try different positions. Also, try girl on top. This way you can control the penetration level and not go to the point it hurts.
      Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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      • x.st.angel.x
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2009
        • 1479

        Perhaps some extra lube might help?

        Saint

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        • lovexlaugh
          Member
          • Jan 2013
          • 42

          Try being on top so you are in control. If its hurting, you shift a bit Being aroused before sex helps, so you are wet and things slide into place a bit easier.

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