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  • Unlovedgirl
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2013
    • 3

    My boyfriend dosent wanna have sex

    Okay we'll it's been awhile that he's not interested in having sex . He don't watch porn he says he don't masterbat he tells me he wants to have sex with me but he says its cause he comes to fast and dosent please me so that makes him not wanna have sex at all , but I can't deal with it anymore there has to be a better reason anyone have some advice on what I could do
  • DreamP346
    • Oct 2011
    • 2053

    Try doing a search. This is actually a very common issue that may other posters have brought up. There can be a number of reasons. He just has a low libido. The premature ejaculation is causing his low libido. Physical issues with being sexually active. Emotional issues with your relationships or other stuff like stress. You don't know until you can talk about it with him. If PE is the issue, then he can definitely pleasure you in other ways like oral. But if he is not even up for trying, then that is another problem all together.
    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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    • Unlovedgirl
      Junior Member
      • Apr 2013
      • 3

      Ya he dosent wanna do anything but he says he does but it never happens

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      • LisaW1991
        Senior Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 128

        How old is your BF? I've heard about older guys having problems, but its kinda rare for guys still in their sexual prime....

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