[Sree Devi]

I'm A Mother Of Two.. My Elder Son Is 13 and My Younger Son Is Just 4 Months Old & My Husband Is Abroad Now

I Breast Feed My Younger Son. But My Elder Son Is Asking Me To Give Breast MILK To Him too....

I Got Shocked ... He Is Having A Childish Character..

He Is Asking For It Innocently.. I'm Not Able TO Deny It... Shall I Breast Feed Him Too ???

Please Help Me...

[Claret]

No you shouldn't. In some cultures, out of necessity, breast feeding is done for a prolonged period of time, however, at the age 0f 13 your son is near puberty and this could be construed as sexual and inappropriate. He needs to know what the breast feeding is for, and also why it would not be appropriate to let him do this. It's not appropriate for him and it's not appropriate for you.

[BabyGirl]

I'm A Mother Of Two.. My Elder Son Is 13 and My Younger Son Is Just 4 Months Old & My Husband Is Abroad Now

I Breast Feed My Younger Son. But My Elder Son Is Asking Me To Give Breast MILK To Him too....

I Got Shocked ... He Is Having A Childish Character..

He Is Asking For It Innocently.. I'm Not Able TO Deny It... Shall I Breast Feed Him Too ???

Please Help Me...

Goodness, this is a Strange Question, even at my Age almost 60 and having all children over age 23.

No ...You Should Not Breast Feed your 13 year old .
You need the Milk for the 4 month old to make sure that Son Survives.
Your Elder son is seeing and learning about the Pubescent attractiveness of Breasts .
And with many " Men " and Pre " Men " Breasts are Beautiful.

You can use a " Pump " and save the Milk for Later, but it should be for the 4 month old.

Your 13 year old may need some " Mother Time" that has nothing to do with you Breasts . But more to do with your " caring of him, now that hes growing up ".
If your Husband is away, you may ask him to start being a Father to his Son. To explain to his son that someday he may have a Woman and Wife, that he can respect and suckle the Breast. But His Mother is not the one to Suckle with .

[Little]

The highest age for anthropologically "normal" breastfeeding is about 7. If you want more information about that, you should Google Dr. Kathy Dettwyler.

You say he asked for it innocently, so maybe he's just curious? You might consider giving him some in a cup as a one-time deal. Tell him, "this is what the baby drinks. My body designs it specifically for his needs at his age. You are old enough to get your nutrition all from food, so you don't drink breastmilk."