[heartmygf]

Hello,

My new girlfriend has always had a hard time with orgasms; both while pleasuring herself and with men. While it's not impossible, it's difficult, and rare. It's really frustrating for her, and I certainly want her to have the quality and quantity of orgasms she desires. She seems extremely anxious about the problem, to the point that she feels guilty and as if there is something wrong with her. I'm trying to be as supportive, encouraging, and helpful as possible, especially trying to make her feel comfortable with me and for her to know that I think she's amazing, which I do! We're working on it, and I'm currently reading "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner to try and improve my ability to please her, but I don't think I can do this alone and I want to give her a book she can read and get cozy with when I'm not there. I've asked her if this would be okay with her and she agreed, but I don't know what the best book to get is. I've found these three below, can anyone recommend the best one? Thank you so much!

The Multi-Orgasmic Woman by Mantak Chia and Rachel Carlton Abrams

I Love Female Orgasm by Solot, Miller, and Chiang

The Elusive Orgasm by Vivienne Cass

[BabyGirl]

Why not get all of them ?
Maybe not all at once, but one after the other .

Also see if you Two can set aside a time each day or even once a week to read a Chapter together and discuss it. Maybe even Role play whats in the Chapter.

While doing this, make sure the goal is not " Just To Climax" but to learn the technique.
If she doesn't Climax, no big thing, Practice makes Perfect or so they say

[heartmygf]

There is a lot of overlap with these books and I don't think it's necessary to get all of them. I'm trying to find the best solution for her, and don't want to overwhelm her with information. As far as time, we have definitely set aside time to practice, and the goal is certainly not just to climax; we're taking a holistic approach. Does anyone have experience with any of these books?