[californian]

Californian,

If you are saying that you inserted your finger, but only one knuckle deep, then I doubt very seriously that you accidentally tore your hymen.
Euphoric

Please dont be judgemental .. but can you tell me if I already tore my hymen , is it sure that I will not bleed during the actual penis insertion ?

Does bleeding during the sex depend on the intensity of insertion ?
will is be difficult to insert for my partner evern after I tore my hymen , so if he pushes hard , it will hurt and I will bleed right ?

[californian]

Are you asking how it felt the first time any of us fingered ourselves or the first time our boyfriend " went down and Licked us "?

I meant to ask that on an avg how much does a girl bleeds who is a virgin but might have tore her hymen by self pleasuring ? Does she bleed at all ? what is your definition of being satisfied after having orgasm ( may it be clit or vaginal ) ?

[californian]

Prior to knowing, I would have guessed 12-13 based on the what was being asked and how it was asked. I talked about that kind of stuff with my girl friends when we were in the 5th-6th grade. My niece, who is 12, has asked a lot of questions about sex over the past year. Everybody different.


Lisa

Lol .. I am 23 for sure .. but may be I never got a forum to put up my questions .. so remained a little unawared .. but now that I have got a forum .. i will have a clear amd bigger picture very soon .. I am not from California .. its just an alias ..

[Euphoric]

Californian,

This is a health and wellness forum and your questions are of valid concern to you. The goal here is to help each other without prejudice or judgement

I can't tell you with any degree of accuracy whether or not you have broken your hymen. I highly doubt that you did from inserting a finger and inch or two. Many virgins use tampons, which are inserted deeper than that, and still have their hymen intact, which is why I suggested that you may have scratched your vaginal wall. However, if you have ruptured your hymen completely, you could still experience some bleeding if your first penetrative encounter is rough or lacking proper lubrication. So, yes, the intensity of sex can cause bleeding, especially if there is a lot of friction.

Will it be difficult for a guy to penetrate you with a broken hymen? Maybe. A lot of what and how sexual encounters feel depend on your degree of arousal and lubrication. If you are contemplating an encounter and worried that it may hurt, have him spend some time engaging in foreplay, and perhaps having him penetrate you digitally first to help open you up and relax. If he is well endowed, he may not be able to fully penetrate you without it hurting.

Will you bleed? That depends on whether or not you have a ruptured hymen, how well lubed you are, how gentle he is, as well as his size. I wouldn't recommend your partner going hard and rough during your first few encounters. Once you have developed a sense of what sex is going to feel like and what feels good to you, then experiment with pace and pressure. One of the most important things when becoming sexually active is to relax and enjoy it. If it hurts, tell your partner so that he can adjust the depth of his thrust or you both may need to reposition yourselves.

How much will you bleed if you ruptured your hymen? Every individual is different. Some will say that they experienced a significant amount of bleeding while others bleed, but not too much so this is difficult to answer. Unfortunately, losing your virginity is not a "one size fits all" situation, if that makes sense

Many women enjoy sex whether they achieved orgasm or not. Some have never had an orgasm, while others have multiple during one sexual encounter. I think sex can be enjoyable because of the intimacy shared whether you achieve orgasm or not. When you have an orgasm, you will know. The only way I know how to explain the feeling during climax — your body will take over your voluntary movement and produce involuntary spasm. I'm sure each individual feels things differently, but for the most part, you will know. The feeling is totally different than the act of sex and mechanical movements you perform voluntarily.


I hope this helped answer some of your questions

Euphoric

[LisaW1991]

Lol .. I am 23 for sure .. but may be I never got a forum to put up my questions .. so remained a little unawared .. but now that I have got a forum .. i will have a clear amd bigger picture very soon .. I am not from California .. its just an alias ..

I'm sorry then , I should have known better because I met several girls in college that never had sex yet, and one of them didn't know too much about sex at all. She came from a very conservative\religious family where sex was something girls weren't allowed to talk about with anyone. She never talked about with her sisters or her friends because it was a huge "no-no". The only sex talk her mom gave her was "When you get married the wife must do certian things with her husband so they can have children". By the time she was in college she knew the basics of sex, but it really was BASIC. She didn't know what oral sex was and never seen a guy's erection.

I was kinda the opposite, I became sexually active in middle school. I was pretty naive too, but that was because I young and things got a little ahead of me.

You asked how to know you're satisfied when having sex? Well, its pretty different for everyone I think, and it depends what you like\don't like. If you have sex doing things that you really don't like, then you're not going to be very satisfied, but of course if you like how it makes you feel, then you're going to feel pretty good about it. Most girls like a lot foreplay, so that is one area where a lot of intense pleasure can come from. I love it when a guy takes his time to get me fully aroused before he enters me. My younger sister is a lot different, she loves having "Quickies" where its short and intense, and she'll likes having sex more than once day. She likes prolonged sex too, but quickies are her favorite. I can't do quickies very well because I can't get aroused fast enough. Everybody different

[californian]

Californian,
the feeling during climax — your body will take over your voluntary movement and produce involuntary spasm. I'm sure each individual feels things differently, but for the most part, you will know. The feeling is totally different than the act of sex and mechanical movements you perform voluntarily.


I hope this helped answer some of your questions

Euphoric

Thanks , this answers most of my question

Since both of us are virgins , there is big fuss over sex in our minds :P

I am really really excited and so is he , but one day he said "I am so so much excited to do it , but if its something worth less what was expected out of it "

I am not sure , Can you tell me are guys happy after they do it for the first time ? I mean how do they react after loving a virgin ?

[jns]

It will be special for your bf when the time is right.

[californian]

Californian,

This is a health and wellness forum and your questions are of valid concern to you. The goal here is to help each other without prejudice or judgement

I can't tell you with any degree of accuracy whether or not you have broken your hymen. I highly doubt that you did from inserting a finger and inch or two. Many virgins use tampons, which are inserted deeper than that, and still have their hymen intact, which is why I suggested that you may have scratched your vaginal wall. However, if you have ruptured your hymen completely, you could still experience some bleeding if your first penetrative encounter is rough or lacking proper lubrication. So, yes, the intensity of sex can cause bleeding, especially if there is a lot of friction.

Will it be difficult for a guy to penetrate you with a broken hymen? Maybe. A lot of what and how sexual encounters feel depend on your degree of arousal and lubrication. If you are contemplating an encounter and worried that it may hurt, have him spend some time engaging in foreplay, and perhaps having him penetrate you digitally first to help open you up and relax. If he is well endowed, he may not be able to fully penetrate you without it hurting.

Will you bleed? That depends on whether or not you have a ruptured hymen, how well lubed you are, how gentle he is, as well as his size. I wouldn't recommend your partner going hard and rough during your first few encounters. Once you have developed a sense of what sex is going to feel like and what feels good to you, then experiment with pace and pressure. One of the most important things when becoming sexually active is to relax and enjoy it. If it hurts, tell your partner so that he can adjust the depth of his thrust or you both may need to reposition yourselves.

How much will you bleed if you ruptured your hymen? Every individual is different. Some will say that they experienced a significant amount of bleeding while others bleed, but not too much so this is difficult to answer. Unfortunately, losing your virginity is not a "one size fits all" situation, if that makes sense

Many women enjoy sex whether they achieved orgasm or not. Some have never had an orgasm, while others have multiple during one sexual encounter. I think sex can be enjoyable because of the intimacy shared whether you achieve orgasm or not. When you have an orgasm, you will know. The only way I know how to explain the feeling during climax — your body will take over your voluntary movement and produce involuntary spasm. I'm sure each individual feels things differently, but for the most part, you will know. The feeling is totally different than the act of sex and mechanical movements you perform voluntarily.


I hope this helped answer some of your questions

Euphoric

I dont know its a myth or what .. but the place where i live , people believe that only virgin women experience mentural pain beacuse of the reason that they are virgin .. and the pain subsides after you lose your virginity !! is it true ? Or do many women experience it ?