[Pucca22]

Hi gurls Ok so, i got this account to ask a question that i dont feel comfortable asking people around me, and its kinda long.

Basically, I just turned 20 and....occasionally have fantasy about women while I touch myself. 8 out of 10 times its about a guy, but sometimes it would be about a girl. And either i come or .... end up fantasying about a guy when i cant so i can come. But when I do, it's hot.

Not going into details, but the only thing im curious about with a girl is to GIVE oral :/ which started after i saw a lez porno.....-.- but it seems to only be in my fantasy because when I try imagining it with a REAL girl I see somewhere, its just really weird and I feel WTF about it?

I haven't had a relationship yet, but all my crushes to now, and longing for romance and love, and getting alll nervous and jittery is with a man.

.....i just wanna know whether im bi or curious or mostly straight, or what?? I know the whole "labels only belongs on a jar" thing but its nice to know your own identity. PLEASE HELP ME.

[rcoreyus]

As you said, labels don't matter. There is too much variety in human sexuality to use a few labels. Maybe you are "straight but fantasy bi"?

All that matters is that you are as honest as you can be with yourself and your partners, so no one is given false expectations. Its fine to have fantasies about women, but not want to act on them. Its fine to have them and act on them.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

There is nothing wrong with finding yourself, your body and let's face it, don't care what men say Women's bodies are beautiful..

It's easier when young to see that than a naked man, well unless he has a six pack and all that.

Look, curiousity is adventure, adventure means you are not a prude and you are open with sexuality.

I don't think that there is a simple answer. If you mainly think of men then you are normal to even think of a woman or look at her and a lot of this has to do with the fact of what you watched, it's curiousity in my opinion.

[Catinthe]

I'm a woman, and I would say most women are curious at some point about what it would be like to engage in sexual activities with other women. Your sexual 'fantasies', however, do not necessarily determine what you want in real life. (Eg, watching bondage porn but not wanting that to be done to you.). I personally only watch lesbian porn, but I feel completely straight as I could never imagine actually doing something with a woman day-to-day. But even if you do ever experiment with another woman, it's nothing to be ashamed of and you'll be surprised at how many women - straight, bi, lesbian, whatever - experiment at some point in their lives. Hope this has helped